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5 Things Every Divorced Man Should Do Before Starting To Date Again - Prague

5 Things Every Divorced Man Should Do Before Starting To Date Again - Prague27 Oct. 2016
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Are you a recently divorced man, somewhat at a loss as to how you can move forward with your life? This is not an easy or comfortable transition for any man, but there are 5 concrete steps which can put order in your process of recovering from divorce, and provide a road map to start dating again and then begin to establish an exciting and satisfying relationship with a compatible partner.

In the above video, Social Coach Baron Cruz explains these 5 strategic actions to advance successfully to a new and rewarding phase of your life:

1) Reengage with old friends for support and social refreshment. (Caution: Go slowly in following these friends' suggestions for you, which will often involve jumping quickly into a new long-term relationship)

2) Take a trip alone to a location which is new and interesting to you. Changing your "geography" will do wonders to reset your perspective and "clear your head" to prepare you for step #4 below.

3) Date a woman who is different from your ex-wife, either physically and/or in personality, goals or interests. This will allow you to start assessing whether certain women are actually compatible, appropriate matches for you.

4) Design your own lifestyle. You now have the flexibility and autonomy to reach your own decisions as to how you want to live your life as you go forward, armed with more personal knowledge, and a clearer frame of reference than you have ever had.

5) Get an education as to how to interact with women successfully and with confidence. How do you "break the ice" with someone you are meeting? How do you know what specifically to say, when to say it, and with what tone and expression? Developing this interactive skill set in relating to women is absolutely essential to finding that right person for you.

By watching the video above, you can begin implement this solid plan for leaving the difficult time of divorce behind you, and moving into a new era of self satisfaction, optimism and confidence, which will include a fulfilling relationship with a well matched woman.

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Comments (88)
Lash Mctoobin

Thanks man, its really hard right now.

Daniel Taylor

Ah its shit. My relationship broke down recently. Its really tough.

Erdal Timbush

My Name is Martins.I have my wife back and she means so much to wife left me after 4 and half years of marriage,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single...when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..I lost my job as a result of this, cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was a mess and everything did not go smooth with my life...I tried all i could do to have her back but did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back cos her memory keeps coming back so like they say how can you forget a girl that gave you so much to remember and how i lost my job...he told me he's gonna help me...i don't believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my wife left
me and also told me some hidden secrets.I was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to uk the following day that is Thursday...My wife called me at exactly 12:35pm onThursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she's doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that was like am dreaming when i heard
that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven't seen anything yet... he said i will also get my job back in 3 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my wife back now with kids and i have my job back too.This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..Even if the husband or wife wants to end your marriage it is still possible for you to save it he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for can mail him to:[email protected] .Your good fortune awaits you...

Mad Ashell

Men shouldn't marry at all..

Fun2 Drive

Biggest problem with this advice is that in many areas of this country there are no quality women or those women that meet your standards as they might be too young or too far away etc. Setting dates up is a non issue only if you have a pool or women that are available. Where I live this advice is less than useful not because it is bad because it assumes you live in a populated area and have access to these women. I have to venture out great distances to find them I mean hundreds of miles...

Carl White

Love this video. I split from my ex 3 months ago. I finally have my own apartment and i love it. I see my kids more than i did before ?

A Few Below

This is good man

Dan Sciglimpaglia

Great video.

King Jojo

Very informative video!

Emily Greene

I'm glad I found a gentleman who never was married, because if I were single, i'd rather go to my grave single than be with a divorced man. They are not worth the undue stress and hassle.

Able Willing

Ok going through divorce now... pen and paper out... ‘Take a trip’... ok cool. Oh wait... Covid says No


Just to share some thoughts. Don't worry about the age. Don't worry about what is considered the "Norm." Dont look into what went wrong and what went right. Accept it first. It may take years . But trust me, when you do and you understand nothing in the world is perfect and it's okay to move on. You will begin to work towards yourself honestly. Hobbies/GYM helps a lot. And eventually the things that hurts you everyday (old memories etc) will no longer be a heavy thought on your shoulder. Finding a "person" while you are going through this may be a temporary solution. But accepting everything and improving yourself, before you find someone is the way to go. Keep yourself busy is the key. The things that are keeping you busy, "enjoy" it. When your ready, then go out with friends and enjoy the night out. Dont look into finding someone as a goal. It will eventually happen. Took me a few years, but eventually got there and im honestly happy. Happy not because I found someone, but happy because I knew theres a lot of things in life then just being with a Partner. Keep your head up bros

Home And Lawn Care By Design

That guy signing at end I want more of
Please can you give us some info or a longer video he is amazing

helmi ben aziza

Thanks a lot for this great video dude. I really love your mindset, particularly how one should invest in himself and make the most of his life. I do feel confident dude yet I am bitterly disappointed by my spouse. No matter the sacrifices I have made for the survival of our couple, she never shows care or consideration . To be honest, I feel an enormous anger deep inside me. I need to take your advice and forget about her.


These are great tips for women too!

Arpad Vadasz

Why all the family courts are against man in every country?
The agenda for the global government is to weakening the families, so the population can be controlled easily.
Destroy the father, destroy the family !!!

Robert Hamilton

I've been divorced 2 years now from a woman I've been with for 40 years! She was the only woman in my life since I was 16. I initiated the divorce because of emotional, verbal and physical abuse. I have been in a bit of a funk since then. I'm kinda of lost and not sure where to go from here. I know I don't want to be alone and want a woman in my life. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this whole thing.

Cristanaa hulsee

I'm a woman going through a divorce and this is very helpful information. It works both ways.

Beary Griffin

Thank you dude, going through a divorce right now and needed that pic me up.  greatly appreciated ..


Gents. This is great. Go find someone but don’t get married. The contract of marriage would never work in business. How can any divorce raped man advocate for marriage? The laws a grossly skewed towards the woman. A man alone with some motivation can build a city. A woman alone can’t figure out how to connect to a wireless printer.

Mark Hoffman

# 11, take care of yourself.

Greg Chase

If you've never been married and want to try it, go for it, get it out of your system.

Just make sure to EXIT before you have assets to lose (get married young, divorce before 30-ish)

When starting dating, this is nearly the year 2019, *REMEMBER*

1) we now have the weaponization of false accusations

2) consensual sex can turn into rape the next day, depending on her mood

3) DO NOT engage in playing 'hard to get' -- at the first sign she gives of "not interested" GET OUT OF THERE, if you think she's playing H2G and you *get it wrong*, if you're in a social setting (bar/club/restaurant/party/etc) she can have you kicked out; if at work you can be fired for making that 2nd attempt. NEVER PLAY 'HARD TO GET' and 'CHASE' her. It used to be okay, fun sometimes (I guess?), nowadays? SERIOUS NEGATIVE OUTCOMES if you read her wrong

4) the cohesion of the women's movement is astonishingly strong even for non-feminist girls. If a girl gets a chance to 'make a stand' and 'wave the flag' for the women's movement, MANY WILL DO SO regardless of any consequences for YOU.

5) AVOID ANY GIRL -- whether a stranger or a girl you know -- IF SHE'S INTOXICATED. Get the mother-living-hell OUTTA THERE and when you arrive at your next location, interact with someone - ask them "what time is it?" or something, ESTABLISH your time of arrival. REMEMBER: *consensual sex can turn into rape the next day, depending on her mood*

6) avoid any women who are STRANGERS. Wait until you see a girl in neutral social settings so you can better predict how she behaves.

THIS IS NEARLY 2019. IT IS *VERY DANGEROUS*, LEGALLY, FOR MEN. You may not like it, but one thing humans are good for - ADAPTING. So protect yourself.

Naz Asha

Hi guys am single and ready to engage can you look for me.Wish you all well.

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Scott Coughlin

And get a dog. They help bring you out of your shell, and are always up for doing something with you. Plus, ladies know how you treat a dog, is indicative of how you'll treat them.

Samantha Deane

I thought you were asking the guy playing the guitar at the end if he was satisfied with his life haha.

Diane Lopez

Most men need to hear #5.
Great advice even for women.

Zachary Collins

So I guess there's just a bunch of us sad assed divorced mofo's in the comments. The thing that has really pissed me off is there are dozens of support groups for women in my area going through divorce, but not a single group for men. There is this mindset that men don't have pain... that we don't feel even. Or that men are always to blame. Shit like finding myself being quiet at 3am so I don't wake her up is one of those things that is a constant reminder. It's the goddamned reminders that make moving forward difficult. We need one of those mind erasers from Men In Black.

Muhammad Ali

well i come from a very closed door sought of culture...this is from Pakistan...recently i faced divorce...well this video really helped me...i got very informative and hidden facts which i was not aware...Barron Cruz...nice work sir...for putting things together for Divorced people...cheers!!love from Pak!!


Great advice dude. Going through separation, with two kids especially, it’s pretty tough.

Empowerment Through Trials

I am currently going through a divorce. I am sharing my story on my youtube channel. Go check it out as I share empowering messages to those who are also going through or who have gone through a christian divorce.

Dee S

I am a woman but saw the video anyway, love it - thanks for the tips!

R Fox

Great tips! I would like to add with the following which helped me dealing with the divorce and get back on the saddle:
1) doing a lot of cool (new)sports
2) reading quality books like (can't hurt me ~david goggins and 12 rules of Life ~ J. peterson)
3) spending far more quality time with my kids
4) reflecting on my bad past habits and changing them
5) accept being single, because being single is underrated
6) dating nice women without big expectations, just for a good company
7) getting my shit together and being the best version of myself

hello divorced man, im in

Michael Plitt

Nice talk but not really any good advice. Just same glib stuff.


Years of dating. If you’re single stay away from divorced people, especially those with kids. It’s like driving a car with a salvage title.

Essene Sea

Relationships are stupid. Have fun and stay alone ?

Kristopher Johnson

I saw this video right after my divorce. I didn't follow this advice right off the bat. Instead I got a rebound girl and that relationship eventually failed as well. But afterwards, in the back of my head, that advice spoke to me. It's true, first thing I did was go to New York and started a new lifestyle. I wish I had followed the advice right away but I'm in a much better place now than I was in 2016.

Rambo Rage

Hi Ben, could you upload the uninterrupted video of the gentleman singing the song at the end. I think he deserves some recognition, or I thought so for charming song. Thanks

Claudi M.

The 5 things I've done since I got divorced 2 years ago:
1) Applied for getting the light aircraft pilot license.
2) Boosted my hobbies
3) Volunteering
4) Did nothing when I just didn't want to do anything.
5) Enjoying loneliness.

Slaven Man's Gym

When I got married 10 years ago, I had ok eye site. Now after her affair and divorcing her, I'm legally blind. I'm hopeless :(

Elfi'e V

Amazing video Baron. This is one of your most genuine videos and kinda deep.
Thanks brother.

MAXIM, Holland Nederland, the Netherlands.

Your ex was actually your worst enemy.
Get alive again.
Following your personal goals.

Karishma Rao

is this advice only for men...

Andrian Juric

This my favourite video of yours. It feels the most genuine and friendly.

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Stephanie St.Claire

Really solid advice Barron!

same same

I was very very heart I still her ...even we had fight n all ..but I thought we will make out all again ....but. She moved on .... The days before marriage was like going to death...but will recover soon ... Ur video is nice ....will try to follow


The problem with traveling is when you live paycheck to paycheck. You know as men, we’ll be bent over backwards in child support, etc.

I’d love to visit Europe - Ireland and Scotland. Germany, Amsterdam. Visit Hallstatt for the hell of it.

Hell, I’d settle for Whittier, Alaska, or Ouray, Co for no other reason than because they’re there.


You just got your fingers off that burner! You're going to find another hot stove immediately?

В Поисках Правды

Thanx dude

southern katrina

Clean your space. Tidy yourself up. Don't chase bimbos. Be a quality person. Do not live in a dump playing video games for recreation. Join a group that gets you to exercise and use your brain. And do not expect women to be your mummy and look after you.


The great thing about reconnecting with old friends is you sometimes reconnect with someone who was really an acquaintance, and ends up becoming a true friend. It also helps to keep your social skills sharp.

Izak Santana

Thank you. This was really helpful.

Naz Asha

Hi thanks am 42 yrs and am single ready for truth loyalty. Look for me good guys out here.wish you all well

Eric Delay

Amazing advice Baron.
I would put #5 as #3 though

Qu Zee

The guy with the guitar in the beginning, is he Alex Jones' little brother? Lol!

Tony Hind

20 years single after my divorce. To happy to get trapped again.


The LLLLAAAASSSSTTT thing you should be doing is looking for another parasite to suck all of your finances and life out of you....if anyone pressures you to go back into hell, stay away from them...this guy talking is FULL OF SHT.


Great content tho

Lovely Soul

I wonder why this DIVORCE RATE is extremely high with Caucasians ?.... Not like that over here,we traditionally believe marriage is for better for worse. Africa norms prevent lots of us to exit union like that ... I feel your pain but I must say,anyone who has passed through this, is really a STRONG HEART .My respect to you ! It's not easy one bit. A short term break up in a relationship is painful let alone DIVORCE. ??

LoveCompassion Love

whats the song the guy is singing

Chico_ Fit

Number 1 I believe should be “Take care of yourself”. Take the needed time to heal like any other wound, get in the best shape of your life ( physically, financially, spiritually, mentally and socially) try different hobbies, things you never had the time to do before. You will be surprised! You might adopt a new hobby like I have. Go after your dreams and goals!

Andrian Juric

Any chance you could upload the busker video to a seperate channel? Ive had that song stuck in my head for weeks

Abdullah Alshamali

Wow thank you

Patrick Han

Newly divorced after 12 yrs of marriage.

Travis Scott

nothing creepier than a jackass who just got out of a trap telling men how to jump back into it

Punjabi Mehkma

thank you :)

Amandeep Kaur

I watch this video becoz i want to help my fiance to live happy life and to forget his past I was single before he met me so I don't know what he had faced during divorce....I want to see him happy with his little boy I can say after marriage he will be me my little son....I love your video defenatelly I am the one different & strong women who wants to make my men happy forever...plz suggest me more how i can make him smile more

Jerry M. Seth

Winner of a video, I been tryin to find out about "the adventures of barry mckenzie" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Rabblecca Prefatory Recognition - (Have a quick look on google cant remember the place now ) ? It is an awesome one off guide for discovering how to save your marriage minus the hard work. Ive heard some awesome things about it and my cousin got excellent success with it.

Tyler gnosis

This helped alot

Legendary Pickle

When I travel alone I think of my ex wife

Ronald Thompson

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Troy Wooton

Mr. Cruz, thank you very much for putting in the time to put this video together for us. I am currently going through a divorce right now with a lady who I spent 6.5 years of my life with, stupidly in love. She and I have been apart from each other for almost 9 months now, not much time at all I know. However, being the cocky man that I am, I decided to re-enter the dating scene a little to soon, and began seeing a woman who I think I had a real connection with. Long story short, we took things too far too quickly, and I wasn't equipped for that emotionally yet. Now I feel completely lost in many ways, but your video has helped me to kind of re-center myself in the midst of what has otherwise been a terrible day. So for that, thank you.

AMS parlay 1

I'm Going thorough divorce I hope she change her mind
The most difficult that I can forget my daughter what will happen to her home she will feel etc

cristina lacoste

These are great suggestions and they apply to both sexes. But I think that it's important to keep your friendships going. You may not be able to see each other as regularly as you used to but connect as often as possible. You need those relationships in your life.

Greenspud Trades

To start dating again?? Really? You just touched a hot stove why would you walk into that mistake again? Go MGTOW

Boss Man

I bet ya , guitar guy gets all the groupies .

Ian Lewis

If his in Prague he will be going to all those strip clubs


holy shit did i need to hear this to help cope.

Gabriel Zambrano

Dudes I need help seriously, I have to start over from zero literally!!! And it’s super scary, I’m 32....

David Plymel

Does Troplusfix Dating Secrets really help to get laid by hot women? I have read numerous good stuff about this popular dating course.


Love these videos with Prague in the background. How long are you here for?

The Charisma Matrix

Whats up! I shot this video walking around Prague with some interesting stuff goin' on around me...

When guys get divorced they enter one of the most challenging times of their lives. However, I think that by doing some simple things I talk about in the video they can not only weather the storm, but come out in a MUCH better situation than they were in before.

Any divorced guys have thoughts?


My ex alienated me from most of my friends because she didn’t like them. Anyone else experienced this? My friends became her friends husbands. So lost those too.

Jonvolca Man

One of the most important tips is that if you're still younger than 40 you should finish a higher level education. Once you have that you'll have more negotiating power in the job market. If you are like most older divorced men and are over 60 then its time to plan for your well being and retirement. Marriage is an expensive liability and the reality is that you do not want that kind of stress after 60.

The Government

Men do NOT get married. Risk/Reward is not there and you know it. Get a vasectomy even if you think you may want kids in the future you still can. The advantage is you will have much more control when and whom you have them with.

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Comments (33)
Ira karis

Jonathon said don't abandon your children to chase for true. i can understand that. i was married 17yrs, I just got out of divorce, we lived together 2 years in separate rooms, been dating a divorced 2x guy, he is 42 that showered me with best comments for a few months, and now i have pulled so far away back from him, i do realize i love him very much, and he loves me, but things have changed, because hes been telling me i spend to much time with my children and i don't give him the attention he needs, i need to go on a vacation with him, has said i have baggage, told me to get rid of my kids, then he apologized told me it was not meant to heart me, was just a matter of speech, i was very hurt to hear him say that to me. he is also angry that i signed my divorce without a lawyer, and is constantly asking how much is my ex going to give me? i tell him its not your place to dig it my past with my ex, so he called me a liar, and im making up rules for him. How am i making rules when its my life with my ex, and he sounds like its also his because we r dating. I don't think this is love, and i confronted him not to say it again, his answer was and still is " im to insecure, im too immature, and i need to grow up, and be a submissive woman to him...
Im stuck, i really love this man.


Oh boy, you two are terrible!

Michele Quici

People who are divorced should only go after other people who are divorced. They should not go around harrassing people who never married, are engaged etc.


Dr obvious

Mimi Gee

I'm a 41 year old woman of 3 kids married for 17years and I've been by myself for 1 1/2yr and I'm Learning how to be comfortable with myself. I'd like to meet someone else but I'm not sure how long I'm supposed to be alone. I'm ok with being alone but I'm looking for a best friend.

Rubik's Cube

Ewww - guy in blue is sleazy

Joe Hoe

i see so in order to talk to women i have to sound like one The hunter must think and act like the prey in order to catch it Where do you get your tampons

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alicia braun

I've seen him online many times :) "Blonde hair, blue eyes", what a douche

Raul Ramirez

U will make my day if u reply back Tripp I love your advice dude keep it up ??

xono ghoroe

5:20-6:00 lol that dude in the glasses totally wasn't listening to understand, he was listening to reply. what a douchebag


This was the hardest thing I had to do, but I had to be honest with myself and my ex wife. We just drifted apart, but the saddest thing For me was I won’t be seeing my son everyday, I just had to find myself again and follow my passion I once lost now I’m better about to finish my studies on becoming a professional chef and I’m a much better father now then before, at the end she had better relationships with her phone then with me lol I told her that and she agreed with me.

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Trace Rollins

I've been divorced since 2012 and I haven't dated anyone since then .This video is a big help..Thank you!

Obed .R

wow wow tons of dating after divorce haa this blue shirt guy should get a worldheavyholder title for having girls & ladies like Donut's. anyways give me some advice on how to RKO a girl outta nowhere I'm really pissed off now??

stefan rodk

I need help right now! No clue how this happened. My age is 19 and this girl is 24 or 25.. okay, i was never before in a relationship.. never kissed a girl.. don't ask me why.. but now i noticed few situations, she gets so close to me.. so close to my lips.. but here is the problem.. i dont mnow how to make a kiss last longer, i know she had fb they broke up... nvm that how to kiss?! Turn head to right side, kiss lip below this is awkward as fuck even typing it.. even more important question how kiss a girl but for few seconds? I hope you guys or girls understand what i mean

field frost

Tripp pls make a video about what to do when you ask a girl out and she says maybe

Axel Loan

Hey Tripp i got an off subject question  how would you go about trying to ask out a waitress? i feel like you would need to get her out of service mode first what would be the best way to do that

Axel Hart

Dating sooo many women only shows that you have no standards and self-respect whatsoever. I'm not judging, just observing ;I wish I could lower my standards. I'm divorced for 10 years and could not find one woman that was available and attractive. Just remembering the mothers of my kid's friends who also got divorced,.. oh boy.. I would rather move into a monastery than dating one of those.


I agree with inner work. You think you are ready to date. But you'll find out soon or months later that there are emotions, personal issues you haven't dealt with.

Ol' Dirty Dasher

damn! this dude owns his shit with that 'I abandoned kids' reveal!


How do you get back your ex after you dumped her more than a year ago? Everytime i text her She ignoreres me and sometimes replies with a small text.. idk what to do and I think about her everyday.. sorry for my bad English haha but a reply with an your thought about this would be the best ❤️??

Danté Loubser

Can def relate about the 1st 2 year's after divorce. I could only date someone until they fell in love. And I'd be interested up until that point and then pull away. This happened women after women.
Anyhow its been just over 2 years and could def feel the shift. And something inside changed. Online dating wasn't working for me and like mentioned in video I found Facebook just a way better way to meet women.
So super long story short. Started chatting and connecting with one girl effortlessly.
We met face to face tonight. And it went great. Really like this girl. She is also divorced.
Previously I didn't care to much if it worked out or not, as I wasn't emotionally ready.

Now that I do actually do give a shit.... How do I not screw this up???? I'm excited , cautious and very unsure about where to from here.

Am I just being an idiot?

spencer sponcer

Never had a girlfriend here
But still good advice
Thanks guys

Michele Quici

Divorced people are douchbags. It means they are not good and they should stop trying it again with other people: they still are not good. Quality people instead stay married.

Austin Reid

I sat through the whole video of your get her hooked program page. It said $67 and that was it. Come to find out you also pay a monthly subscription fee of 50 dollars. Thanks for the waste of time.

siddhart rajput

hey Tripp ma friend is divorced with no child and he is just 26 years old .. he have have problems to make a new relationship what should he do

Curtis Rose

Never marry cuz she wants to it must be your personal reasons otherwise Smash and keep moving


um i feel like the guy on the right is desperate to let everyone know that he is 100% straight & really looooves P as he says a few times but I’m sorry to say my gaydar is spinning like a top with this one

V Raptor777

thanks man


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Roy Tindall

I am presently going through my second divorce. It did take me 2 years before I was comfortable to try dating after my first divorce and I was 46 then. Now I'm 60 and I'm in good health but I worry about how many good years I have before I try dating again. Physically I am good but emotionally I'm a wreck!!

Dating after Divorce

Dating after Divorce12 May. 2020
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Hello friends! Welcome back for another video! I swear I LOVE chatting about overcoming my struggles when it comes to dating, divoice and motherhood. Today, we dive into dating after divorce, separation or a long term relationship. IT ALL SUCKS trying to get over somone you truly loved, but I am here to help! There is hope and with these tips you'll be on your way! Thank you for watching! Please be sure to LIKE & SUBSCRIBE.

Comments (26)
laisa strickland

Thank you!? together for 15 yrs and 2 kids later, I needed every section of this video.

Dominique Ryles

Sliding in your DM's" oh that's what it is!" ???

sayra lopez

Love this! I really needed to hear all of that ❤️

Kathleen Carosi

Wise words, kudos to you and others that take time for themselves after divorce. I watched this video since I feel like someone I know is rushing in a new relationship with a recently divorced woman. Also, hockey is awesome. Best wishes.

Jacqueline Gunobgunob

You are just awesome! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much!

Frankie gomez

Bitter woman

April Vanderhorst

I sooooo needed this! I just got divorced in April after 16 years of marriage and I'm only 37. I have 2 daughters and never dated as an adult so thank you for the guidance. Keep the advice coming!

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You are gorgeous! And I loved this video! Thank you so much for the advice.

Janiqua Tildon

Thank you for this. Perfectly hit on a lot of different challenges of being single after divorce. Much love ❤️

mohamed talia

I want a woman who is divorced because she wants to start a family and forget the past

Christina Padilla

Hi Alisha. Just wanted to let you know how much I needed to see this video. You're absolutely right in saying there aren't many vids that are meaningful and true. Watching you and listening to your tips gave me so much encouragement. Just wanted to say thank you!! ?

lady Bug

Your a very beautiful lady by the way. I went through hell that I shouldn't have had to go through to get to the point I'm at now. Blessing to you and your new beginnings and relationship if you are still in one now? Your glow is beautiful as well.

jojo the monkey

Dating after divorce? Simple.

Antoinette Gardner

That before and after was hilarious ?!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks so much for this!!!!!

Chrystal Dilgee

Off the topic ... your hair is gorgeous and so are you! Loving the advice, I'm there as well.

Dominique Ryles

I've been divorced for 3 1/2 yrs. It was one of the brutal ones that everyone fears and lifetime could make a movie about. I've stayed single because I had been through alot of Trauma with men prior to my marriage and after 6 yrs together my ex was the only man I ever let my guard down with. I had a nervous breakdown when he cheated and finally admitted it on our anniversary a week before our daughters first birthday. And it got worse from there. I knew I was not going to be ready to date for a while. My heart was obliterated. I've tried about 3 times going on a date I do talk to one guy but I just don't want to invest in anyone again. I was doing well but I'm in a rut right now. I am a leader in the church and I know my story has helped many others I just don't know how to do this right now I'm still really wounded. I've been transforming myself physically and mentally. But I just ugh... I am at that I just want to shell up again. I have not wanted to really connect for a while but after almost 4 yrs ... I mean I'm not dead and miss intimacy.

Christa Nodland

The Sharp Cheddar Cheese! <3 I'm dead. And girl you killed this video.

Paola Manzanarez

Just subscribed! Love your vibe!! Going through a divorce currently ?

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McLendon kelvin

HOW TO RESTORE YOUR MARRIAGE: My wife and I were married for motr than 7 years, Things went wrong last year and for some reason my wife broke our marriage apart, I did all I could do to save our marriage. I was caught by surprise that my wife was emailing another man behind my back and talking to him on her working phone so I couldn’t find any phone records of her doing so. She has had men friends before some I have know about as just acquaintances others she has text and talked to but didn’t let me know twice before this man. This one was a little more upsetting to me because I actually saw some of the emails her calling him baby and him calling her angel and her saying she was becoming attached to him and her sending him a racy pic is what hurt too not, at the moment I was not sure it her talking to him. Reading the email hurt more than the picture she sent. It has only been maybe a year since this was going on and she didn't say she was sorry and that she didn’t know why she did it and that it was stupid of her to do this. I never expected she would leave me one day. she left me because we fought a lot about her and other men and we couldn’t handle the stress any more and never talked to me since then. I found she had booked her trips traveling for a month in January and she is working in remote places most of this year. Which I have never really been like this until I found out about her texting and talking to other men behind my back, only God knows what it was only eight months from the last incident we had about talking and texting another man at her job but she claims it was purely just a friend thing. But this new one has really turned me inside out and it is fresh in my mind. She said she just wants to forget about it and move on. I wanted to save my marriage because even my wife was acting this way i still love her so much, There are much to say but I thank Dr Ifa who I was introduces by a friend of mine she Dr Ifa have also help. Dr Ifa help save my marriage and now we live happily.. I will love to advise anyone trying to save his or her marriage to Contact DR IFA via:([email protected] .

This Girl Neekee

This is such good advice! I was with my son’s dad for 5 years but we’ve been separated for about 4 and half years after a traumatic breakup. I only went out on a couple of dates with one guy since then. Then I haven’t dated since then. I’m single by choice too and I’m accomplishing a lot of things but I can honestly say I’m afraid of dating/relationships. Still not ready.

maranatha alicia

How long have u been divorced? I’ve been separated since February, divorced since April and I’m still on the struggle bus. I too was married for six years.

Ruby Armstrong

This was so helpful!! I was prepared and ready to have a year of me after getting divorced, I was not seeking out anyone but rather naturally someone I knew who had gone through divorce and is being a support is becoming someone I am starting to like and they like me. I’m being so transparent about where I am, what I am ready for and that I’m not sure what I’m ready for. but I am here watching your video because I need halp! Ha ha. This was helpful and I don’t feel alone.

Rebekah Wheeler

I love your video! I’m currently going through divorce and I needed to hear what you had to say! Thank you for being so open and sharing your experiences

Erin Brodman

Thank you for making this video. I'm currently separated and going through a divorce and I feel like there aren't enough people talking about this. It's not an easy thing to go through and can feel very lonely, and hearing from people who have gone through it makes it a little easier. I appreciate you opening up to help others. ?

Faith Warren

You nailed it... every single part! I wish I had seen this kind of content when I was going through it. Thank you for your honesty and candor.