How to know its over

The Smiths - I Know Its Over

The Smiths - I Know Its Over27 Nov. 2018
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I Know It's Over was featured on the groups third studio album, The Queen is Dead, 16th June 1986.

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

And as I climb into an empty bed

Oh well. Enough said.

I know it's over - still I cling

I don't know where else I can go


Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

See, the sea wants to take me

The knife wants to slit me

Do you think you can help me?

Sad veiled bride, please be happy

Handsome groom, give her room

Loud, loutish lover, treat her kindly

(Though she needs you

More than she loves you)

And I know it's over - still I cling

I don't know where else I can go

Over and over and over and over

Over and over, la...

I know it's over

And it never really began

But in my heart it was so real

And you even spoke to me, and said :

"If you're so funny

Then why are you on your own tonight ?

And if you're so clever

Then why are you on your own tonight ?

If you're so very entertaining

Then why are you on your own tonight ?

If you're so very good-looking

Why do you sleep alone tonight ?

I know...

'Cause tonight is just like any other night

That's why you're on your own tonight

With your triumphs and your charms

While they're in each other's arms..."

It's so easy to laugh

It's so easy to hate

It takes strength to be gentle and kind

Over, over, over, over

It's so easy to laugh

It's so easy to hate

It takes guts to be gentle and kind

Over, over

Love is natural and real

But not for you, my love

Not tonight, my love

Love is natural and real

But not for such as you and I, my love

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my ...

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can even feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my...

Comments (100)

once again I am asking you for your emotional support


Asleep makes this song sound hopeful


I know it's over - still I cling
I don't know where else I can go


felipesm2020 Sm

Ha ha im feeling the big sad again guys

natalia Gómez


Matt Winstead

"It take STRENGTH to be gentle and kind." Amen, from both sides of the lyricist dilemma. I've been on both sides of that one

Isaac S

a masterpiece.

Rai Oliveira

estou admirada que nunca havia ouvido uma musica como essa, estou há dias ouvindo indo quando acordo enquanto me arrumo para o trabalho e a caminho do trabalho. uma obra prima audivel <3

nini ?

came here to cry but instead i just feel numb lol

Leila Elisa

it's 4 am
here we go again

shattyk zhanibek

I gonna miss you my love. I know I fucked up, sorry ? ... u was my sun.. I hate myself ?

Bruno Ferreira

eu amo este som


I know it's over
and It never really began,
but in my heart
it was so

spooky brat

Playing this song after my boyfriend turned down the music in the car to watch something on his phone ?

N. C.

? ????????

Corinna E.

3 am here on an Saturday night, or Sunday morning to be more exact. Out of nothing had the urge to listen to this. Now I understand, I'm depressed as always.

Berke Gulez


William Souza

I Lost my mom 2 months ago.
The funeral day... I screamead that músic out loud.
My life is mixed between two, better and the worst.
But i'ill follow the time as she always told me


This is the graveyard for all the love lost ❤

"Love is natural and real
But not for such as you and I, my love".

stanly steemer

Stop weeping pukes women are women a man loves a woman needs. Advice from an old man. Love her and love your children. The children will love you and she will need you.

Todd Terrell

I'm getting old thinking I may have this song played at my funeral.

Andrew L.

Love is natural and real
But not for you, my love
Not tonight, my love
Love is natural and real
But not for such as you and I , my love...

It's the most amazing straight to the heart truth ever...

I Know It's Over will be ever about me, my failures, my life...

Anjho Terrible

Hello Sam :<

Double Yew

Prime male manipulator music. Sometimes I feel like I was born in the wrong personality disorder. Only the truest malignant narcissists will understand this song!

Limonada De Limon

The other day i read a bad new from a friend, and now i cant stop thinking in it when i listen at this Masterpiece

Dean Walker


Ismael Barrera

This is about death i thought it was about love lol


Fuck. It gets me every time. Oh mother....????

Moises Padilla

Que puta obra de artee

Nicholas H

it never even began

Joaquín Hurtado

Although I love you, I cannot live dreaming of you and not have you by my side .....

Varg Hellion


Miodrag Bozic



I would like to say any talk you shared with the dream girls will be never enough but never will be satisfying too we are alone after all just enjoy the music while you can. Love you all law abiding citizens.

Josh Valle

And as I climb into an empty bed, enough said...

brings tears every time


I can't express how I feel so I'll just listen to this beautiful masterpiece

Von Milash

Whenever my self esteem seems to be improving I put this on to dial it down a notch or two.


"i know because tonight is just like any other night, that's why your on your own tonight"

Onyx Moon

It takes strength to be gentle and kind

ivy davidson

here we go 2 am things

Macarena Lara Herrera





Joelson Medeiros

2:00 oh man... only who listen the same (or almost the same) irl, knows how it hurts

Opal Wood

This song is painfully beautiful. Its how I feel every day.


I just learned through a YouTube comment thread that the lead singer is a racist white nationalist dickhead. Welp, that’s a pretty big fucking shame.


...But not for such as you and I
My love...

Leon Thomas

Back in the late '80s I knew a girl who was suicidal; cut her wrist twice. She said it was this song that made her pull through the difficult times.



Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
And as I climb into an empty bed
Oh well. Enough said.
I know it's over - still I cling
I don't know where else I can go

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
See, the sea wants to take me
The knife wants to slit me
Do you think you can help me?

Sad veiled bride, please be happy
Handsome groom, give her room
Loud, loutish lover, treat her kindly
(Though she needs you
More than she loves you)
And I know it's over - still I cling
I don't know where else I can go
Over and over and over and over
Over and over, la...

I know it's over
And it never really began
But in my heart it was so real
And you even spoke to me, and said :
"If you're so funny
Then why are you on your own tonight ?
And if you're so clever
Then why are you on your own tonight ?
If you're so very entertaining
Then why are you on your own tonight ?
If you're so very good-looking
Why do you sleep alone tonight ?
I know...

'Cause tonight is just like any other night
That's why you're on your own tonight
With your triumphs and your charms
While they're in each other's arms..."
It's so easy to laugh
It's so easy to hate
It takes strength to be gentle and kind
Over, over, over, over

It's so easy to laugh
It's so easy to hate
It takes guts to be gentle and kind
Over, over
Love is natural and real
But not for you, my love
Not tonight, my love
Love is natural and real
But not for such as you and I, my love

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my ...
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can even feel the soil falling over my head

Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh Mother, I can feel the soil falling over my...


Happy mf New year wishing yall best in 2021 if you're seeing this.?

Dāvis Vaļģis

Every melodramatic e-boy after a breakup or rejection:

Elizabeth Spehr

Fabulous singing Wow!

Great Skull

Bruh this comment section needs to chill

Vasiliki-Maria Droukali

You know it's the right one when you can't relate to The Smiths's lyrics anymore

Zac Thompson

i am so very lost, and i have no idea what i'm doing.


Love Is natural and real, but not for you my love...

Fox ?


Bruna Michelly

Here we go

kjhjygumytut hgjykugkug

spain without the s


There is something about their music that makes me think about life.

Dark Star King

You could put almost any verse from this song on your Tombstone and it would work.

Joni cevn

I know it's over. She told me today


Forever idiots.


542 dislikes...this is a very very strange world


Listening to this on a Christmasy pandemic, also I hate this pandemic.

cuenta trucha

Happy new year

Rob Dean

Oh well, enough said...


Il mio cuore.....!


That's song i want to call handsome

Beatriz Marinho

Morrissey, obrigada por tanto sentimento nas suas músicas. Por ser doar em suas letras. É uma verdadeira poesia, é raridade. Tão profundo e vibrante que poucos saem ilesos. Você sabe descrever o verdadeiro amor, aquele que realmente passamos, difícil de encontrar e mais difícil ainda de fazer dar certo. As pessoas deveriam ouvir mais músicas assim, não para tristeza e revolta, mas para sentir realmente.

Isaac Sousa

Valeu, Brasi8l.

El Chuco Indigena

How can a song make you want to end it all and simultaneously give you endurance to persist with life?

shanice roubideaux

i’ve been trying to find a song to match how i’ve been feelings for months ...i never really listened to the lyrics of this song when it came on until now. this song represents the feeling i’ve tried to tell everyone how i felt and what’s going on in my mind. no matter how much u see me laugh and smile during the day when i come home and feel the long overwhelming feelings of loneliness.




I keep finding love in all the wrong places. I just wanna find someone to build with but no one knows how or if they want to be in a relationship, and it sucks wanting ones you can’t have. That’s life, I guess. I’ll find her someday soon hopefully.

Rich A

...slowly, dying, of a broken heart.

Chickenshit Conformist

The ending always kills me because it feels like he's crying out at the unfairness of life in knowing he's going to die alone


"Love is natural and real but for such as you and I" I love how he didn't say anything bad about love it's just not for everyone

Berk Askeroğlu

I love you, my baby. You love me too, I know it. You've changed my life, you've made me a different person. We have a lot of dreams which wait us to make them real. We have a lot of memories which we haven't saved yet. We have a lot of moments which we haven't seen. The only thing I know is that I love you with my all heart. My heart is yours. I want you to love me, forever.

Emma 88

This is the most perfect song ever

Strider Stryker

That boy ain’t right.

cries slowly


this song is scary, the more and more you think about it the becomes


I Feeling so lonely...
It Hurts so much i can't explain...

crab fuck Fag

'Cause tonight is just like any other night
That's why you're on your own tonight
With your triumphs and your charms
While they're in each other's arms..."

That hurt

LPC Cocteau

The greatest takes strength to be gentle and kind...timeless


Can you please explain for nonnative speaker exact meaning of “soil falling over my head” thank you


Never even began

Lunaes Msp

I’m 16 years old and my mom would play the smiths all the time but she never played me this album! What a masterpiece. Love this song


the smiths

Management CC


Danny Bernal

It's outstanding the large amount of hits that The Smiths wrote in only four years of career. Just unbelievable, but still real.

Minds in Unison

I can't believe how beautiful this song is!!

Hulluu FetishWorld

His voice in this song breaks through your soul in a tender way but also destroys youuu! It's amazing.

Kiana Rashidi

I don't usually comment on youtube, but I found this song at a very weird time in my life. I can understand every sentence and it hurts. "I know it's over and it never really began, but in my heart it was so real" and the part that hurts the most is that I think it was real for him too, perhaps too real. He always said he was a dream. "Love is natural and real, but not for such as you and I" this just hits so hard. Why is everything so complicated for us? Why can't love be enough?

P Sauce

“Though she needs you more than she loves you.”
I’ve been there thinking it was a real thing but I was nothing more than a rebound for her. 5 months later she went back to the other dude

feel theburnbrodoyouevenlift

I love the smiths. Although i often come back to the work of Morrissey(the smiths) and ian curtis(joy division) i think i am finally starting to come terms with the facts that not every man is meant to find a women to love for life. I am glad i started to accepted before turning 30.

Dede Agung Bachtiar

This is the sad version of Fly me to the moon.

Bryan jose Perri

I havent sleep like for 3 days, anxiety an crying, in this year i was in jail for six months and my bf of 4 years of relationship cheat on my i feel so fucking broken

i liek milk

i know it’s over
and it never really began
but in my heart it was so real

ivy davidson

this gives me grease vibes

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Comments (100)
ula smith

After our breakup i have started going to therapy and its really helping , i want to show him that i have really changed but he said that i had too many chances to show him

Adrian Lujan

Hey Natalie I'm Adrian so recently me and my ex broke up and I didn't do my best to make her happy I was struggling with self confidence and I didn't catch it so me and her broken u like 4 times I'm working on myself so I need answers. Thanks Adrian


If you're under 30, you should not be tripping over an ex. Time heals, live your life, and forget them. If it was meant to be the universe will make it happen. look at it as a lesson for the next relationship and move on. Sometimes being apart for days, weeks, months, even years makes it easier to get back together. You can't force feelings. Honestly, wait like 5 days after the break-up and only reach out if you know what your intentions are. If you still haven't figured it out after 5 days, wait longer until you have yourself figured out and fully understand what it is you want. If neither of you reaches out, then clearly you're not ready to get back together. Also, just because you think you might be ready to reach doesn't always mean they wanted you to; it doesn't hurt to try because you have nothing to lose. If you're a guy, don't seem needy, women like when you're happy without them, it literally drives them nuts and makes them think about you, so be happy. Don't think that using someone as a rebound to "get over your feelings." is a good idea; it's not. Imagine how your ex would feeling if the knew you "messed around" with someone else, it would give them reasons to not get back with you, so think about that as well, because the truth always comes to light so they'll find out eventually. Honesty is key to a healthy relationship, so if you don't tell them and I mean only if they ask, then you're starting out as a liar already. Don't bring it up unless they wanna know, sometimes the other party likes to be oblivious to that kinda stuff if it happened while you were separated. If you bring it up, they might take it as that you're trying to rub something in their face. Unless you start the question off by asking them, then, of course, they're gonna expect you to answer as well, with honesty. It was a very weird situation for me, it didn't end how I wanted it to lol but that's life. Just remember these three things, you can't force feelings, don't invade privacy and be psychotic, be happy because life is short and we can die any day now. There are trillions of other humans on this planet, you'll find someone when the time is right.

CJ Dior

She claims I’m toxic and everything was my fault but she said I can’t be around you until you get right

Berna Ganda

How to move on when the boyfriend who dumps is just always around, seeing and hearing every now and then, you stuck up but you can’t do any since you’re tied up with a contract

James D

I didnt tell the truth in the beginning to protect them they were nieve. I was protective of the truth as well.After she broke up with me I told her the truth. From reading her friends she cried and missed me. I shot my self in the foot. I didnt show my masculinity.

naomi klark

hey, I hope u can help! the problem is: I don't actually know what I need to change, because he never said a reason besides he couldn't see a future anymore, but he still loves me. it has been 7 weeks since then, I made many mistakes the first 2 weeks after the breakup, which made him probably go away even more. never bagged him directly, but through my actions it kinda showed him. I provided myself from social media, but now I saw he especially liked multiple pictures of a girl, I think he started dating again. I am in no contact for 2 weeks now, in which he reached out once to ask me how I am. I am so confused. should I let go or should I hope through actions to become the best version of myself I will get him back?

Hayley Villagomez

Thanks for the help


I love and miss them. They left me for someone else

BWR Rock

I logged into my Facebook account for the first time in 7months and the first picture I see is my ex in the pool with another woman. The woman I believe he left me for. I was doing fine up until this point. Now I'm angry, pissed and my anxiety has heighten tremendously. All those feelings are back again and still haven't found anyone yet.

[email protected] Chukky

He disappear without a word

Shawna Battaglia

What if the break up happened cause THEY needed to change? I broke up with him and he's making progress in his life but wants no relationship with anyone right now. He still expressed he wants me in his life but not what we were. So do I stick around as his friend and wait or just go no contact and let him figure it out. Also wish you had more videos for the dumpers. We aren't all bad people lol

Sophia D

He said he doesn’t ever wanna talk to me ever again blocked me on social media and my phone number:// he said I’m sadly his lover still but he doesn’t wanna love me anymore .. but idk what to believe .. I see it in his eyes that it doesn’t seem fully true but idk!! It’s killing me:( he said he doesn’t want me to be his soulmate anymore :(

Dominique Gagne

Help!! Been doing NC for 24 days...dated 6 years.... havent heard from him
Havent gotten my stuff back do I approach this?? How do I get my stuff back?? I dobt want to just send a message asking it you know when we havent tslked for long time... idk what to do.

Loretta Agbi

I love u coach typing from Africa GHANA.

Ethan Schiltz

Tell that to my narcissistic psychopathic ex. T-800 terminator that one was. I'm so convinced this coward IS a robot I'm about to try to stick a magnet to our offspring

Jill Thompson

Thanks great advice ???I think I may be too needy and demanding

Amity Roy

Thank you, this was really motivating. It’s really a great push!

miranda constancio

I have been broken up with my ex of 10 years , the reason for breakup was because an old ex contacted me and I texted back I was the one to tell him of what happen because I didn’t want him to find out by anyone else but by me I showed him the proof of the messages and he still is angry about what I did . I’ve now hit the stage of this breakup where I feel lost and depressed and I can’t stop crying I want him back so bad and I need to know what to do.


I can show the person the change if I can't see or speak to them. She says she don't miss me or interested in me anymore and I should leave her alone. I've seen some people cheat on there parthners and have kids with other women and still get there parthners back. I just acted a bit needy cause of lockdown. So she breaks up with me.... It's stresses me cause it Don't make any sense to me.

Ernest Rubin

so she broke up with me because im not changing, then i did no contact, i was finding things that were making me happy. then she dropped off my stuff. it hurt me. she reached out a told me and she said she still isnt ready to talk to me. what do i do?

Winfred Byrd

I have walk on my ex and her new bf so I guess she move on right

Tiffany Hernandez

What about if I ended it, and he’s saying I broke his heart and when I wanted to reconcile 2 weeks later he said he’s too hurt and can’t do it. He’s thrown lots of mixed signals. We’ve been together over 4 years. He says he can’t see me but then he will call two days later. Should I do no contact?

Esmat Abedini

what if my ex makes friends with other girls or sometimes I have heard he is KIND OF a variety seeker ...We had a long distance relationship ...any chance for me coach Nataly? I really love him and I WANT him back ...what should or can I do?


When my ex broke up she kept saying that it wasn't my fault but the reason she was not ready for a relationship was because she felt so overwhelmed by her depression and personal issues in her family. She left me no clue to what i did wrong, surely if i was "perfect" she wouldn't have left me in the first place. How do i change for the better if i don't know where to start? How can i know what flaws she saw in me in order to think it would not work out, or was she truly telling the truth? I have been in no contact for 2 months now and i'm unsure if i should reach out, wait, or try my best to move on. Thankful for any help/tips


There is nothing more dreadful than the habit of doubt. Doubt separates people. It is a poison that disintegrates friendships and breaks up pleasant relations. It is a thorn that irritates and hurts; it is a sword that kills - Buddha


My husband after 17 yrs left me 4 days after our 10th Anniversary. He was still telling me that loved me then 4 days later he wasn't in love with me anymore. Weve had our struggles over the yrs, he cheated yrs ago & told lies over the yrs. We didnt get the help we needed back then. I then started distrusting and doubting him which pushed him away. How does someone supposedly love & miss you one day then 4 days later not be in love anymore? I've gotten an eye opener & just want my husband back. He works out of town all the time, how can we even get things back if he never sees me or even really talks to me? Some guidance please & thank you.

Davon Hoskins

What if she moved on and married someone else


I think he's done for good. :') one week of radio silence and nothing.

Shakerra Shelton

Just found out mine has been in a relationship since June 28th.... we've been broken up for 5 months now. My hope is gone.

Baby Bee

Hey Coach so my ex girlfriend of 3 yrs left me for someone new. Who is the complete opposite of me. She told me to give her space which I did and she ended up just getting with someone new within just 3 months. 2 weeks before she got with them she was on my line for a whole entire week straight. Saying she loved and missed me...but now blocked me and I tried to contact her not knowing she had a girlfriend and the girl answered and told me to stop calling and she even sent me pictures of them kissing and such. It really broke my heart. But I still love her even after all that disrespect. I feel stupid for still loving her after she let her new partner disrespect me.

Jenny Tran

My ex said he just want to be friends and he said that I’m putting him off him that I never change he blocked me from all communication as I was needy I love him so much and don’t want to loose him please help me I’m a mess right now will he come back to me?

JoJo hanna

And what if he sent a SMS saying "I am sorry but I don't want contact anymore, you were always good to me but now that's it. All the best for your life" it's a goodbye forever? :(


i ended things with my ex because i needed to focus on myself, i felt like i needed to grow into myself because of past struggles. at the time i thought i wasn't going to be able to handle the responsibilities of the person she needed at the time. she felt that i was distant, that i wasn't putting in effort, and its true, i was starting the stage of focusing on myself and i just needed to break out and find myself. She tried telling me that she would stick by me throughout it but i didn't want to do that to her. Things ended at the beginning of July, we were both drained and tired of arguing back n forth. i began focusing on myself and i was growing immensely. i was quarantined for a while and that gave me enough time to be in the right headspace, i am better than i have ever been and i truly have changed, but she got a boyfriend 3 weeks after the breakup, someone i knew from a group facetime we all had once. she posted the photo of him and her on what would've been our 5 months. as you can imagine this hurt me, i ignored it to the best of my ability but i never wanted to move on to begin with. now, i have wanted her back more than ever, i caught myself obsessing at one point and put myself in check. i tried messaging her on instagram since she blocked my number but she read it in the morning, didn't respond, blocked me in the afternoon, unblocked me for about a minute and then proceeded to block me again. this was on Tuesday the 8th. since then i don't know what to do, i only have one last connection through another business instagram account i have but i'm not about to jeopardize that. i have no clue what to do anymore, i know she still loves me and i still love her, i really can't lose her. please help

Samantha Gilhooly

My Ex said to me I made him feel worthless a n d he said I kept telling him to go with someone else I did not do these things he said samantha

Nicolas Hernandez Larriera

Make a video if you break no contact after a week or more

Rashida Spanner

If you ex don’t see the change cause there not around you how can you reintroduce yourself?

Javier Navarrette

I love you couch Natalie! You kick ass and are so hopeful and helpful, thank you!


I'm 8 months into my relationship and we recently broke up due to her finally coming to the conclusion that she doesn't need sex at all. I've been incredibly sexually unsatisfied for the last 4 months. In the beginning, we had sex quite regularly but I think now that was more to ensure I stuck around to invest into the relationship. I've come to the conclusion that she's either asexual or the trauma that happened in her past is impacting her sexual drive. I also discussed the possibility of it being a vitamin deficiency. She refuses to talk to any doctors or counselors about her struggles and just wants me to accept no sex in our relationship. I finally had enough and said we can't move forward if both our needs aren't being met. In the last week we talked here and there and she had a day when she tried to get me back stating she'd be willing to try the vitamins but by the end of the conversation I could see she was incredibly reluctant and begrudged the entire idea. I told her I can't go back if I'm not 100% sure she wants meaningful change.

Weekend past and she turned to alcohol and posted nasty things on her FB. I didn't go looking for it cause i frankly don't even have social media lol. But a friend let me know cause I was having a tough time dealing with the fact that I hurt her. I didn't message her. I just left it alone and figured it was her way of processing.

I sent her a simple message the next day stating we need to take a break from chatting via text and if she wanted to speak again, we should do it in person. So today was day 1 of no contact. It was tough but made it through.

My heart is hopeful she'll come back during no contact and want to be everything I dream about but I know that's not realistic. I know that in the last 4 months she never took our sexual issues seriously. I don't expect it to change now. Even if she said she was willing to get help, I'd question the authenticity behind the sentiment.

It's tough when the relationship is so great in most ways but not every way. :(


What if he has noticed I’ve changed and I’m a great person, but he is convinced he is done and that we won’t be together again? He said he loves me only because we have spent years together and treats me as a family but not much enough to want to be close to me. It is after no contact and 4 months of separation. Is this possible that he will be willing to try spending more time together in the future?

jonna rose segador

what should i do if he blocked me in social medias and cut all our communication?It's been 2 weeks since he broke up with me.he told me that his life is messy when im his girlfriend...He also said that he's not happy with our relationship ? I love him so much and I want him back ? I am currentlt doing the no contact but It seems like it's not working ???

Sharif Fahim

I'd reach out to you on instagram but didnt get a response. Are you not taking on new clients?

Dominique Gagne

Exactly how I feel. Replaced , rejected, unwanted, not good enough

michael joseph

My ex hates and never wants me in her ever again but every time I’m ready to move on and stuff boom she back in my life she hates how manipulative I am a liar a cheater and a back stabber but all I did was ask forgiveness and try to change my self I went through so much in a spand of 7 years I’ll have a job make money offer to buy her things and food and I give up sleep to stay up with her I sacrifice a lot to be in her life i love her so much and that’s was my everything nobody will top her I can’t do better I just want her back in my life

Harry Mccarthy

I was distant and My ex phoned me on her old number and said I’m changing phone number but part fo me still love for you , , I’m so confused ??‍♂️

Jenny Tran

Are we done for good in this situation

jasmine lockridge

please somebody help me I need advice but I don't the money for 1 on 1 coaching. me and ex had a great relationship we have 2 kids together and been together 3 years we've recently had to move into his mother house due to a hurricane and our relationship was still great up utility recently the start of 2020 I've noticed he's become more and more distant I've also had my faults in becoming super complacent not wanting to comb my hair the little things I just found out he's been talking to someone for 3 months and cheated on me with her. I have no words of how heart broken I am right now we never had arguments and even though he cheated and is now living with her within 3 days of me finding out about everything I seriously think he's a good man a great father I feel like I'm never going to be happy or find someone who truly loves me I've even numbed my pain by drinking I just don't know what to do he now lives with the girl they've been together for a month now and I'm miserable without him can anybody please help me overcome this pain I'm feeling I just don't know what to do at time I just want to dodge something drastic when I'm down and out but I have small children that depend on me for everything ???? please help me

Kimberly Laguna

How do they see change when we don't have mural friends and aren't on social media with each other?

Mohymen Maytham

Should I ask my friend to tell her if she miss me or not and if I want her back will she say yes or is this bad, I miss her and I want her to want me as much but how, any advice coach nat over this please?

Baker Sede'

If there is a recent break up and shes not answering your calls yet she is answering your text then stop.What does that mean

Patrice Dor

I gave my ex an ultimatum that if she speak to my friend/ coworkers were breaking up she didn’t choose me and as a result we broke the next day she went on a date and it’s only been a week and there together everyday. She has deleted me and blocked me on every social media platform and all I want is to get her back is there anything I can do to salvage the relationship and restore our connection?

Luke Cage

Thank you

Lil K

Welp my ex is done with me for good i didn't change I wasn't the boyfriend she thought she wanted I screwed up I wish I could go back and change everything

Sheena McGuinness

"There yours! Put them in check... TELL THEM TO SHUT UP!!!"...right? LOL, thanks coach nat, need that


What if it's a marriage? We separated Nov. 2019 and were on track to come back together. We even celebrated our anniversary Dec. 22.
In February I discovered shes sleeping with her manager at work!
I hired a PI for evidence in divorce court. You still think she gives a shit about me?

abc defg

Hell yeah he is liar!!!!

Rebel T

I've stopped drinking I've stopped partying I've worked out so much I've lost 45lbs . I'm working on my confidence . but damn i miss her

Andr3ss 1

Why is your voice so soothing ?

Sam Aronson

Please make a video about breaking up due to my girlfriend moving to a new city and not wanting to do long distance. We are both young and decided ldr wasn't right. So, the breakup isn't due to anything wrong but rather different paths.

Gil-Junior RiseAboveBetrayal

Can u help me with my situation. I been with my wife for 10 almost 11 years but the last 4 years i been addicted to opiates. She has never tried any hard drugs and even though there was a couple times she wanted to see what tbe fuzz was about i didnt ler her. But the last year was bad, especially after marriage. She finally had anough and asked for divorce last friday. She went out for a night out with her friends and i fucked up by letting her leave all hurt and all cuz i was mad at her too and though this would help her blow some steam. Well she met with her first ex from like 16 years ago and u guys know the rest. She came back wanting a divorce and today i finally sign them. The thing is that she wanted tk have a baby amd i kept pushing and pushing it cuz didnt think jt was the right time since im still working on my self. And just about a month later she wants divorce? Like wtf??i can tellshe was really heart broken and felt really bad that she cheated but since ahe open up to this dude that made her feel good and happy she came home not wanting to kiss or even hug me cuz she dont want to feel like she betrade him now but like shw ws still my wife. I didnt talk to her for a week and she called saying she missed me. We met up played it cool but she asure me that she wants to b happy and she just cant picture her self being happy with me anymore she doesnt even care that we have a 3 year old daughter. I really fucked up this time cuz i have won her over twice from the same dude. But last 2 times i had broken up with hee but this was 4 years ago. And when i found out they were talking i came back in the picture and won her over quick but this time its different. And im broken and i cant forgive myself for letting this happen. 11 years being with her for almost every single day and night with her. If anything we didnt sleep 2gether about 15 daya through out the whole 11 year relationship.

Christopher Le Marchand

What if they said that they didn't think you trusted them? I've said I did and im now leaving her to it but she has a new boyfriend. How do I change that

Mapaseka Mnyembane

My ex contacted me I responded but it ended with a mini argument becoz he was in my Fb account and I didn’t care so wanted to argue he got angry and I was laughing ,2weeks down the line I texted him coz I missed him he responded and he was very firm and cold
So I decided to back off becoz he affected my ego when he said he not talking to me that’s y I think he’s being so quiet ? I don’t know what to do becoz he was nice a 2 weeks ago but when I text him his cold and he has a new gf he got into that relationship very quickly ?

rosezetta chandler

I left several times smoke drugs cheated he took back now he don't t want relationship he dating still seem me them disappeared won't answer calls

Nick Brydie

Hey guy my girlfriend broke up with me because I was to needy and was always text her to much and wasn't sure what I wanted for but I knew I wanted to be with her there some issues about her being a bit controlling. Is it possible for us to get back to after all that.


Nah they can walk away and feels nothing. My reached out to my ex and she said she is feeling 1000x better now, that she is allready oveer me so yeh

Audrey cal

What if he moved on with someone else..? Its not a rebound and is real..? He loves her quirks..
he said she's better then me..and he's happier..he even blocked me for her..please help
Also shes there with him physically while i'm nit

Murchison Donald

My grlfrend has told me she cannot forgve me and she does not respect me anymore. l want to change her to feel deeply once more,please can you help me?

Tim Crimmins

Broke up with my girlfriend after being caught cheating for the second time

Zack Z

I think she is very nervous .....

Julio Cordero

We argued then get back together finally we broke it off but I still lover her.

STE Paperman

My ex girlfriend said she wasn’t feeling the same no more

Andrae Samuels

Please I need help

Paige Bailey

Me and my ex have been together for only 3 years, but he left me a week ago because for two of those years I was insensitive to his feelings, lashing out over the smallest detail, and board line verbally abused his feelings. I found out the day after I have PMDD and apparently it’s not something I can control without the right self care and medication. But he said it’s too little too late. We share three kids together and I really want to focus on co parenting as we’re great at it no matter the circumstance. But he said he’s done because he’s waited for two year for me to change and now that I have it’s just too late, but I just can’t in my heart believe it. My head wants to because that’s what he told me though. I just want him home no matter if it’s tomorrow or 100 years from now. That’s what brought me here.

Shiko M

Are there relationships that can never be salvaged?

Kimberly Laguna

I dated only 7 months and everything was going well... He just broke things off saying we are wanting different things. It seemed like we did. No contact for 2months

Caroline Hallatu

Hi Natalie , i'm yorien from jkt Indonesia. I just broke up with my ex because of well... many things. We had ups and downs in 1 year of relationship but it was real, i even spent christmas with him and his family. I'm pretty close with his sisters n mom. I'm a single mom of two and he's pretty close with my kids. Bottom line is... i thought we were doing okay although we had problems. We broke up 1 week ago and i know that he's already seeing another woman who is the opposite of me. Now he don't wanna talk to
me at all, but It's funny how he was the one who said " you still have your stuffs here, i'll send it to you " honestly i didn't remember i still hv my stuffs there in his house until he mentioned it , but when i asked him ( not directly to him but to his employee) to send it, he said no delivery office are open , but he lied. He can send it if he wanted to and i can send money if its expensive. He doesnt wanna talk to me at all, don't wanna send my stuffs back , already seeing someone that fast, what does he want from me? I still
Love him so dearly and i'm still doing my " no ctc moment " but this is frustating... and oh we ar in a long distance relationship and in this corona moment, there's no way i can hang with girls ... i'm so sad...

Valentino Mele

Can it be saved if i do my last hardest change a year later (weight loss)? The previous year i did all the main mental changes, but this year I need to finish the physical change, it really takes time. But I am scared she is already somewhere else, she started deleting our pictures. Please help. We broke up 15 months ago.

Nishant Sawant

After spending 13 years in a relationship my ex family is against our relationship because my ex is a dentist & they want doctor or engineer much qualified they are right in that side but now the problem is going on is that my girlfriend dad is no more & she is thinking that now if she marry to me what others will think. When ur father was der that time he was against us & now he is not there should i take advantage. there are some more problem is also there that people around my girlfriend giving advice making confuse & if i say something to her in this situation she will think that I'm selfish but i can't live without her my girlfriend is my life my heart I don't know how solve this situation

Andrae Samuels

I was accused of cheating on her and her friends keep on telling her, I was planning on getting engaged this month and we broke up this month. How do I get her back?

Jenny Tran

Coach Natalie you are the best love watching this video it has given me hope u keep it real thank you

Ronatta Murray

What if he is talking with another woman already and think he moving the woman in with the apartment with him

Priscilla ragesh

What if you're ex says you're done

Elena Raudasch

Coach Nat! I would love to see a video about what if an Ex tells you to stop contacting him and wishes you a good life. I havent found anything on that and I would like to know if it is time to move on...

baška baisová

You are soo awesome :)

DaBandiT TveE

Watching this helped, thank you Coach!

Noobyvapes Noobyvapes

Need more videos about when she breaks up but we still text daily and are stuck. Neither one of us can completely cut the chord yet. It’s a slow painful fading death of everything I want in life.

Meghan McDonnell

My ex said I need to move on but then he insists on being friends and tells me he will reach out tomorrow to check in on me.. why?

Steven Graham

My ex who I still love and always will has broken up with me telling me I’ll never change. I have been under a lot of stress the last few months and have had a very short fuse which I unfortunately have taken a lot of not most of my frustrations out on her. As a result I sabotaged the relationship and she has told me she literally hates me and will never forgive me for the latest incident and to ever contact her again. I lost the real love of my life. How can I know if this is truly it and her hatred is real or if she is just saying that for the time being? I left flowers at her apartment door this morning and she told me if I try to come to her place again she’ll call the cops. We’ve been rocky for the last few months and it’s mostly my fault. We were together for 6 years. Is it over for good? I’m very hurt and feeling desperate. I’m 14 years older than her and I don’t know if she’s just saying these things because she’s young. Any advice would be appreciated.

Bear Mom

What if i can even develop relationship due to the distance. Cant meet cant contact anything
And its been 2 yrs and keep going. Broke up in different countries and i violated alll rules and he tried everything I believe. Now i dont think i can do more


after a month of no contact my ex contacted me saying he wanted to get back together, i asked him to give me some time to think but we still continued talking. After a week or so he said he wasn't sure about his feelings for me and said he didn't want to get back together and we stopped talking after that. Today, a month later, i texted him saying i wasn't mad and that i didn't hate him and that if he wanted to we could start over as friends. He replied saying that he didn't think being friends with me would benefect him and it would just make him think about the past and he'd be upset about it. I still love him and i can't seem nor want to let go. What should i do?

raven Winton

What if he said he is done with me and doesn't want me. He's in a relationship now with someone he says truly knows him and knows what he needs

jas kkk

Hi Coach Natalie, I want to thank you for making wonderful videos and helping us. I have a weird query, my ex unblocked me after two days and am not making any move to text first, however, he has not sent a message yet,however he updated his pic as a WhatsApp status, what does that mean, and right now even I don't feel like talking to him after the pain he inflicted on me, bt i still want to understand his psychology of unblocking me and not texting.
One more thing, i had screwed up pleading to take me back, bt i have no intention now of getting back. So i accept my fault bt want to know what he is thinking.


I was thinking negative in this relationship. Insecure. And was jealous. Now im changing my way of thinking. Not for him but myself. And im fine without him i have to say. Now i havent contacted him in 3 weeks. Broke up for 5 weeks now. I dont know if i still want him back.

Darryl Cox

My ex is with somone else and has been for a while now she's seems really happy and loves him but I don't know? and it kills me we have a child together and I wasn't ready before but as times gone on I'm finally ready for it all but now it's like she no longer cares about me is it done for good? Is it over I can't live on this world much longer without her ?

Ronald Bessette

hi what does it mean when your wife left u 9 weeks ago but never came back to pick up all here belongings clothes and personal things etc

Ricky McDaniel

I have 27 years in to my ex. And it's been a bumpy road for the most part. And I must add that she's Bipolar and PTSD witch seams to make relationship with her a little harder. I am in love with her. I have never left her not once in 27 years. But she has left me five times in 27 years and out of those five times when she's left four of them within the first week or two she was instantly in another relationship. They've never lasted the longest one has been a year but now we've been separated now for going on three weeks. Is there any advice you can give while dealing with a bipolar woman in relationships and what I should do to make this work?

Frank woodman

She separated from me so I separated from her and not going back . FREEDOM!!! AT LAST

Mike Lopez

I need help so my ex called me. But she was just calling me back because a few days ago i left a voicemail. She wanted to know what was i wanted to talk. She also said that she was happy and she wanted to know if i was ok. Said she was happy and said was done is done. I already accepted that its over. But the call wasent negative but not what i wanted to hear. Ima continue no contact and keep working on myself what does that mean please help

Vip kr

If she says move on and borders are closed and its a long distance relationship. Should i move you?

moizz iman

I mean talked to her a day ago she asked me do you miss me but she is with this guy and she talks about him all the time whenever she talks to me so what does this means .
Actually she is very manipulative though

I Know It's Over (Live at Sony Studios in New York, NY - April, 1995)

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I Know It's Over (Live at Sony Studios in New York, NY - April, 1995) · Jeff Buckley

So Real: Songs from Jeff Buckley (Expanded Edition)

℗ 2007 Sony Music Entertainment

Released on: 2007-05-22

Lyricist: Morrissey

Composer: Johnny Marr

Mastering Engineer: Emily Lazar

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Comments (39)
Фрида Гудим

It's so good

Daniela Gg

Tan hermosa interpretación, tan hermoso él. Por siempre ?


this interpretation is the kind that makes you wish you go through something painful so that you can relate and enjoy the song in all its glory

Jon Barraza

Nora please be happy.

Adam Corvinelli

I attempted a cover of this version for anyone who cares to listen:

Sylvie Eypper

not getting tired of this beautiful song

Damien Angelica

it gives real heartache by listening to it

E in ABQ

Marry me!

Michele Zulian


Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
And as I climb into an empty bed, oh well, enough said
I know it's over still I cling, I don't know where else I can go, over and over
Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
You see the sea wants to take me, the knife wants to slit me
Do you think you can help me
Sad veiled bride please be happy, handsome groom give her room
Loud loutish lover treat her kindly though she needs you
More than she loves you
I know it's over, still I cling
I don't know where else I can go, over, over
I know it's over and it never really began but in my heart it was so real
And she even spoke to me and said
If you're so funny, then why are you on your own tonight?
And if you're so clever why are you on your own tonight?
And if you're so very entertaining why are you on your own tonight?
And if you're so very good looking, why do you sleep alone tonight?
I know, 'cause tonight is just like any other night, that's why you're on your own tonight
With your triumphs and your charms, while they're in each other's arms
It's so easy to laugh it's so easy to hate it takes strength to be gentle
And kind, over, over, over
It's so easy to laugh it's so easy to hate it takes guts to be gentle
And kind, over and over
Love is natural and real, but not for you my love not tonight my love
Love is natural and real, but not for such as you and I my love, oh mother
I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head, oh yes
Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Oh mother, I can feel the soil falling over my head
Mother, I can feel

Jon Barraza

the knive wants to slit me... Do you think you can help me?

Nethmi .G

Every time I look at him I want to cry


The best version of one of the greatest covers ever recorded. Blows the original out of the water. I love the smiths, but Morrissey could never capture such raw emotion. RIP to a legend

Nihan Aytekin

Jeff. This song. Loop. I write. I like writing.

Lea H Car

'..because tonight's just like any other night; that's why you're on your own tonight..' I love this version - it's a beautiful and credible alternative to the original - but those lyrics are unmistakably Morrissey <3

Cristian Rocha

such a sad interpretation and yet so beautiful, The Smith version sounds more ironic but this is more heartbreaking, he sounds so sincere.

Olivia De Koster

this is incredibly heart-rending, it's so raw and such a beautiful piece of music.

Elisa Vieira

Jeff... xxx

mark haigh

Amen x

Lejla Pasic


i lovvvveeddd this cover

Road to the Dream


David Griffiths

OMG it's awful!..Give me the original anyday!


The people that gave it a thumbs down shouldn't be allowed to procreate

celestial silence

One of the most heartbreaking songs I know.

Peabo Wesley

Morrissey /Marr...enough said


Un appel qui réveille une grande mélancolie.......


The intro sounds like Meat is Murder


The life is pain.


I love this song. I like Jeff Buckley's other material. This version is not my favorite. RIP.

Vaishnav Pande *_*

"What can you possibly listen after that?"


jeff is dead


Love you, Jeff Buckley!!!


Heart wrenching. Tears dripping.

Amanda Hallman

“Oh Mother,, I can feel the soil falling over my head”
My ❤️


Such a great cover. I wonder if morrisey ever listens and is like damn, that song is so much better than mine?

Alexandra Dun

Hit me baby one more time

ola saluditos

"I'm fine" No, man... We just heard you're not

Hannah Rooth of Wild Hum

6:13 and I'm in pain

Karla Saenz

"the sea wants to take me"

I wish it didn't. I miss you, Jeff.