How to become a swinger

How to get Started in the Swinger Lifestyle

How to get Started in the Swinger Lifestyle17 May. 2016
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Good8

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Thomas Margolis

For you and how many others do that, which is fine; the desire to see your mate with someone else? The impact, including but not limited to one being more into it versus the other? cuckhold of spouse?

Jason Heflin

Yo, John’s button down shirt game is on point! This guy always has a funky cool shirt on. Lol I see you brother

Jdor D

Yeshua / Jesus is the way not this lifestyle

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MaryAnne Weldon

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John Buss

If woman only meet me my home

Chris Wilson

Jackie is hot I would totally dvp creampie her :)

Alex 10 years ago • Updated

How can I convince my husband to try it? Im just really looking to sleep with other men without being labeled as cheating since I dont want a relationship just some fun. But hes not turned on by the idea of being with someone elses wife. Hes a prude. What can I do?

ambycarr1695

Fuck that shit

barry allen

What about sexual transmitted diseases.?

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Juan Colina

Chemo sucks

MaryAnne Weldon

Love how Jackie tucks her hair behind her ear. So hot❤❤❤

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prasad Nilugal

Start with wine first time

Jason Smedley

Most swingers clubs are brothels where male homosexuality is banned but female homosexuality is allowed. Double standard.

Jason Smedley

It's funny how the tag is "open love" but John and Jackie talk about the need for boundaries. Lol. Not very open, sweethearts.

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Drastic Measures

I think you two are beautiful.
I’m gently working on my wife to experiment with swinging.
She’s 65 and thinks no one would be interested in her, but I honestdont believe that.

I think an older woman, exploring her sexuo, is Very appealing.

Thank you two for all the great videos!

Topolino

How do you approach someone (not your partner) to find out if they are interested in Swinging?

Rudger Rud

What if you are single or your partner is not interested in the swinger lifestyle?
Would couples still be interested in you if you were single?

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Pawel Olownia

I agree. It is important to have low and reasonable expectations. It could be that when walking into a swingers club a couple may encounter much much different reality. Eg. Couples club but when you walk in, there are only men and all 50 of them instantly focus on your wife.

Arnold Stafford

Yea

Michael Millar

Thank you for this video. I like how open and thoughtful you are about this topic. I want to start to talk with my partner about this topic and really appreciate you sharing your experiences and thoughts - very helpful.

Caroline Wells

thanks for your classy approach to controversial decision.

Jason Smedley

Is Jackie homophobic about the idea of John being with another man? Why should men accept female bisexuality if women don't accept male bisexuality?

we both

Amazing video! Can i email you with my questions?

global6674

Very informative.
Thanks!

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Can you spot a Swinger? We list some interesting myths on how people find swingers by Tom and Bunny

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Freedom Seekers

I do not understand why swingers are so afraid someone will know they are swingers. I understand even less why swingers keep it a deep dark secret with their kids. WE DO NOT NEED TO HIDE OUR LOVE FOR HAVING SEX WITH OTHER PEOPLE.

Moto arzan

Contrary to popular believe most swingers aren't always these beautiful magazine model types.

Caroline Wells

To think I've been swinging all this time and never knew a lot of these!

Joe Godfroy

Midwestern clubs use an upside down pineapple.

roderick berry

Bunny is SO hot!

Dave Stuff

I was thinking of having a T-shirt printed up for my wife that says "my husband likes to watch " in large print and then in very small print, "sports " underneath. Definitely think this could be a convention starter. If you're looking for a threesome or a hot wife/Cuckold situation this definitely could work. Craigslist used to be a place for this type of contact before the government stepped in to "protect" us. Now we find SLS to be the place to make connections.

Stephen Potter

How do u find a woman who loves using strapon toys on guys

pantslizard

Over the years I've been approached So many times...I don't have to spot them, they spot me...?

Christopher Dupont

Black wedding and engagement rings were told to us by Hedonism when we got married there. Love Toms trips by the way.

Aurick Canete

In Tennessee, a pineapple is considered a token of hospitality.

palomino73

If having a gnome in your garden or front yard means you're a swinger, monogamy in Germany is plain dead !
We call 'em (garden-)dwarfs (german :"(Garten-) Zwerge"), though.

Kevin Kidd

anklet on the female right leg also means hotwife

Will Archer

I just want a sexy senior citizen that i can fool around with. 65 and up to 90+. They are sexy as fuck. I don't want to offend any of them if they're not into me but if they ask me then im all like HELL YEAH! LET'S GO!
I was 23 when I had a sexual relationship with a very beautiful 80 year old black woman. I was hooked every since. She taught me a lot.

Jarod Carnarvon

Beautiful woman there......

Mister Campos

I like pineapples I like Gnomes but I don't live the swinger life

Miguel Angel Aguilera Davalos

Traducir in spanis

Lewis Cooper

I don't know if swing partner would be satisfied with me because all Id want to see is my lovely lady of a wife getting her mind blown and desires being satisfied. I think other lady would be disappointed cause I couldn't concentrate on anything but the love of my life.

Little Rick

I swear I have seen tom and bunny here in Georgia am i right????

danc2581

My wife and I started swinging about five years ago. We find that the best way to get into it was just going to clubs in your area. You get to meet people face to face, and interact much more easily. Next thing you know you actually become friends outside of the clubs. Going out dinner, private house parties etc. Then you start meeting even more like-minded people, and it just builds up from there. Now we even have private Facebook groups where people can only be added if they meet the group admin, or attend a bar meet n greet. Just wanted to share our experiences on your channel which I found randomly but actually enjoy. Liked and subscribed!!!?

Robert Andreone

i have that EXACT H-D gnome..biker gnome.

Jeff Whitmire

I wear a black silicone ring on my right ring finger. A woman asked me about it last week in a bar then showed me hers. SO glad I was wearing mine!

yourtrue1 wantsfun

I have to think wherever you are either the local customs or taste will guide you to proper customs

chad roxx

interesting and informative video the more you live the more you learn , I've been shaving for most of my adult life out of just liking the natural sexy clean feeling and looks of totally clean shaved from front to back I don't like hair , is there a difference between swingers and bisexual ?

jack freeman

I heard that wearing an anklet was the sign of a prostitute.

Dave Stuff

Now it changed men to me, wtf?

don dennis

Black ring is worn on the right hand ring finger

KettleCornPop 13

I wear the black ring on my right hand pointer finger. ? I've yet to be asked.

gwaccola

Garden gnome?  Seriously?  What about the secret handshake and decoder ring?

Sissy Lexi

People in bdsm also are very well groomed for the most part

NuRyder

It wearing the black ring, is not indicitive of the swinging lifestyle in and of itself, then why not have swingers wear it on a particular finger(s)?

X Mo

Get it standardized and I'll consider it.

Hippiechickbarbie70

Pineapples ? not just as door knockers. Here in FL pineapples on door mats door flags garden flags definitely a swinger sign ??

Brian Cullen

I love this swinging movies

Michael 732

Im gonna incorporate all these hints.

David Burch

Drug dealers use the green light thing down here so do go knocking on those doors!!!

Jerry Oooo

I have actually seen & inquired about this black ring, & sure enough yup they were SWINGERS, and very much into the lifestyle, I actually wear mine because I'm a big game bow hunter & they dont shine or reflect & give you away, in your treestand.
Bunny, dear I must compliment you (with Tom's ok) you are GORGEOUS, & by the way Tom
(& I can say this because I'm secure with my manhood) your a handsome gentleman.

Brian Mather

Yup, About the black rings .. I was at a Motel chain ( Comfort Inn ) And a group of people wearing Black rings & sum other jewelry items of clubs & Pineapple Broaches. . Plus I introduced myself ..!!

dian kreczmer

Omg. I had several garden gnomes in front and they were always stolen. Had no idea!

Harold Swick

Bunny is a fox.

Mostly Reefs

An upside down pineapple is the only fool proof method I know of to spot swingers.

James K

Spade tatoo on a woman means she is into black guys.

Patrick W

I thought blue, as opposed to green, porch lights were a sign for swingers?

Philip Chase

Different countries wear the wedding rings on different hands.

Tucker K.

Not so much the black ring, but it's placement on the hand, met a swinger group that the ladies all wore a black ring on the middle, bird finger of the right hand!

Craig Havice

The wrist bands are a good idea.....if your going to an event

gwaccola

Also, your amazon link doesn't work.

6TREALLDAY 707

You two seem like cool people. We would like to hand out with you guys one day.

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I thought windchimes were indications of swingers? ?
Just found your channel, new subby for life here lol

bryan johnson

Can't find people that swing in Alabama any help out there

Ronald P. Higby

I have a black ring with red band in the center to remmber fallen firefighters and I'm not a swinger

ScubaFreq113

by an old-standing tradition , widows will move their wedding rings / sets to their right hand ; to signify they have become widows

Scarlett Moon

I'm white and dated Black men my entire life and married for 26 yrs and I have never seen or heard of the queen of spades tattoo. never even seen one before this video. Sorry....

Olga Coulter

You just Know!

Tim Gay

I'm not sure about garden gnomes in the USA but here in Australia.. I'm 100% sure that is NOT true here. Soo many of these are not applicable here in Australia.

t raff

Hey could u recommend me any swinger resort for me as single man

Luis Becerra

I want to try it

Lee Trot Boswell

Bunny is very cute ?

Mike Bass

A small discrete chameleon broach or "Fabulous"badge is sometimes used in the UK.......
never heard of pineapples or "yard decorations" (we call them Gardens anyway)

mostly on lifestyle websites like Fab or lifestyle clubs - WE ARE ALL SWINGERS.

Queen of spades is true

All German women wear their wedding rings on the right hand!
Back in the 70s I believe Pampas grass was synonymous with being modern & adventurous

scott spencer

I have heard if you leave your garage door open on a friday night it is a signal that they are looking for some fun..

M

I'm going to buy a green light bulb for my porch-AND flamingos!!!!
If your "discreet" how do you find people?
Learning a lot watching y'all.

Big hp

We are trying out the life style :)

Dick Tejano

Green is for Army. Not sure I believe most of it??

Alan Leinberger

Takes one to know one. Watched your transport videos...before I ever saw this...and knew you were swingers!!

LILITHS LAIR

♠️ = Yes !

CASPER 12345

My neighbors have all kinds of gnomes but they don't have a swing set in their backyard .

Chris Sinclair

You all are nudists too, right?

Justjamin 1

I usually just ask if I suspect

Stephen Husak

Was in lifestyle with ex wife for 20 years. Then she started eating and didnt stop.
Now Im the single male in the lifestyle.

Aprilseahorse

I think the biggest factor to most of these is context, where they display their sign. Bands, jewelry and things one would ware are more likely a true sign if it is seen at a bar, club or event. Although I have had some fun Walmart moments. A woman well dressed and sexy was pushing a cart with a pineapple in the child set part of the cart. She was pushing it around and was looking more at men then stuff. After observing her for a short time I made it a point to end up in a aisle with few people. I stopped near to her and said hi as she noticed me. We just started to small talk and I asked what was up with the pineapple. She said her and her man were looking for a friend or two to come over for a day out in there pool. He soon walked up with some beer and put it in the cart. He then asked if I would like to follow them home and hang out with them. So yes, Pineapples can be interesting..........

Candy Smith

Ummm how about a married couple inviting you and your hubby to a pj party at their home? Yep, swingers! I heard one large rock in the front landscape or red colored mulch means swingers.

Isidro Garcia

We use black rings when at temptation resort Cancun to let everyone know we’re in the lifestyle.

MITCH CROSS

I want to put bunny in my mouth

Miguel Angel Aguilera Davalos

Excelente

Glenn Brooks

Ellis.... Do you know Ellis? Heard that "Asked" here in Frisco area. Basically asking do you know LS ( Ellis )? If you get a "NO" answer, reply to them " thought you would cause there very sexy like you too". See were that takes you, or walk away grinning.

Dustin Castro

How I understood the black Ring. Is it's when you wear one on each hand. So 2 black rings. One on each hand

william Horn

My husband and I have been in the Lifestyle for many years. Yes we had the Pink Flamingo's in our front yard, we also had a Blue Light on the front of our home, not green.

Steve W

Back in the 90's we heard the one about the gal that wore a ring on her thumb that she was bi. Years later we ran into a gal that had one and we asked if the thumb ring meant anything. She said she was bi. That was the only time in all the years the wife wore her thumb ring.

Tow Mater

It would be helpful here in Wyoming if there were a easier way to find like minded folks!

Scott coleman

I heard it was a star on your house near door or on door.

Raymond Johnson

Our group in the Midwest does use the black rings. They talk about it in their pod cast often, as they sale them as well.

Ted Fitzpatrick

been wearing a black ring for 2 years never been asked LOL

Mike Rodriguez

It seems to vary a bit by community

Stacey Dawson

We wear black rings. Specifically for this reason. We have been asked about it once.

keath Uon

“Upside down pineapple ? in a shopping ? cart ? when grocery shopping?” Silly ?

Wade Wallace

In the Orthodox Church the rings of marriage are worn on the third finger of the right hand.

Alex Greene

I have a black ring ?

Kentucky Girl

Right now in Kentucky, a green light means "eternal peace" for those whom have died from the Corona virus. I guess times change. Blessings. Stay safe, friends.

HILLBILLYinHELL

Fetlife they talk about that believe it or not. The Q of spades that is where I heard about that, was news to me..

Tom Bourne

Green lights these days mean you support military. Blue means you support cops. These says THAT'S what that means.

Lucas Bradley

Green front door light here in TN ALSO means been in army or armed forces

Alex Sanchez

How a single guy in the lifestyle ?

ernie w

had a dope awareness meeting at work. hand outs had spotting a doper ,dope prices. the one guy looks at the paper and says WOW dopes really gone up LOL

David Harris

I don't think Bunny is wearing panties.

looboo52251

There is a group in the Midwest who use an upside down pineapple as a symbol for the lifestyle. I think it is a cool idea.

Andracadice Crawford

Love y'all videos

WICKEDLEE LOOPY

Shopping list:
Green light bulbs
Garden knows
Black Thumb ring
Toe ring
Pineapple door knocker.
And a tshirt that says. "I need a push"
With a picture of a swing....lol

Mike Smith

I never saw my neighbors getting in and out of there car but and thought it was strange then I learned they where in witness protection.

Dan I.T. GUY

Hey There! Just found your channel! You won me over! +1 Sub! Going to watch back through your content so I can check out your informative videos! Thank You for the Great Information!!! Interesting!

Dilip Upadhyay

Time to decide universal symbol, I suggest black ring , on left hand index finger , or majority can decide, something for everyone, which makes easy to notice and easy to find.

chrisduvall2011

There's a campground near our area that put out a whole pineapple outside the camper usually on the picnic table.