Eva writes, “Hello, I'm
Eva writes, “Hello, I'm Eva from Taiwan:) I had my first really serious breakup lately, that's why I started to watch you videos! And I really love all of them! Therefore, I also have one question I want to ask. Why after this breakup am I constantly worried if I'll be alone in the rest of my life? Or feeling that I will never find someone again? How can I help myself to stop these thoughts? Thank you!”
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I have the fear of dying without being in a long term relationship... ever!
Men come, men go. Men don't stay.
its not a fear.........its a fact that I embrace
After so much heartbreak I love solitude. I ...just had enough. I learned to love my own company.
I got divorced 27 years ago believing I would find a real man who didn't beat me. I'm so alone. I have dated a lot but every guy seems to either be a wife beater, alcoholic, drug addict, still in love with his ex or just plain psycho. There is a big problem with romance scams right now oh, so I can talk to 20 or 30 guys before I find a real profile or someone who's not trying to scam me out of money. It is not as easy as this video is claiming. It's easy if you're willing to settle if you have morals and you don't drink or do drugs it's nearly impossible to find a decent man anymore. I don't want to be alone, I have tried but have to accept that being alone maybe my only option unless I'm willing to be in an abusive relationship. Especially when you get older, the older men want to date younger women
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When you get your heartbroken, who do you turn to for advice?
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It struck me recently how we’re never really taught how to move on from the agony of losing someone we love. And if we’re not careful, following the behavior of the people around us can make us feel even worse.
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It’s nearly 2019. Maybe you’re missing someone right now as the holidays roll around.
But now is not the time to mourn. Now is the time to truly begin your healing and put yourself back together before next year begins.
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i know everyone gets into a relationship with the hope of getting a better life but it breaks my hearth knowing many relationship ends up with divorce and abuse due to cheating on one another. i was a victim of this as well so no one is perfect. if you ever need help monitoring your partners phone activities remotely to know what they are upto or who they her chatting to secretly then contact XTECH2025(at)GMAILCOM with his help im able to monitor all my partners chat location pictures and videos to gather enough proof of him cheating
He broke up with me. And then he said hope we can be friends
Saving my life. Cried for 8 weeks straight! I cried this morning but not this afternoon. Things are looking up!
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It's perfectly normal to
It's perfectly normal to feel lonely after a break up but that feeling is amplified to the extreme when a toxic relationship with a narcissist comes to its bitter end. Feelings of loneliness and suicidal thoughts are common after a narcissist discard and happens to all victims of psychopathy and narcissistic abuse. It's a creeping feeling of dread that makes us want to isolate even more which leads to more feelings of loneliness and doom. The narcissist knew you would feel this way. This is why they discarded you the way that they did.
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In this video we analyze why we are feeling such intense feelings of loneliness and why suicidal thoughts cross our minds. We are not to blame though. It was the narcissist that created these dreadful emotions in us and now that they are gone, it is our responsibility to combat those feelings and attack them before they completely destroy us.
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im about 7-10 days of no contact after a 3yr relationship. The first time i realized that there was some serious psychological issues with this woman was about 3 weeks into it. We started in separate towns for the first 2 months, having great conversations on the phone. She then would drive 3hrs to come see me on weekends, then after a month+ of this, she announced she was moving back to be closer to her mom, but now i know she had targeted me. We were going to move in together in the new house i built on my acreage, but it never happened. She was a master of projection, actually making me wonder if i was the narcissist! I didnt even know what narcissism was! She would push and complain and blame and lie until i would sorta snap and end up sending her a really mean text, to break up. however i would go back after 2-10 days. Repeated this cycle about 10-15 times because i thought i loved her, and she convinced me that i was the problem...and because im a nice, educated, accomplished athlete and professional, with morals and values, i felt guilty for being mean and she would always say, I gave up everything and moved across the province for you! I thought we were getting married blah blah. So id bow down and come back to her. She couldn't hold down a job, make any friends or have any positivity in her life, which made me feel sorry for her, and boy did she know how to play on it! It finally ended when i snapped and broke it off again, and she proceeded to instantly hook up with an old friend from 15yrs ago. I didnt know for a couple weeks, and she actually had me helping her move her furniture to her apartment while f*cking this guy! Its not like i really cared, but i was still so addicted to the companionship and her augmented breasts & blonde hair (beautician), that i stupidly attempted to get her back and professed my love for about 5 days. I feel like a fool cuz i knew she was a psycho for 3yrs, yet she had somehow managed to dig those fake nails into my heart and soul. Today am in the no-contact process, struggling through the withdrawal, missing having someone around and lonely, fighting the urge to be close to her. Im almost fully accepting of what she is and in my mind, going through the past 3years, seeing all the lies, deception and manipulation...and identifying all those little signs etc that i saw exposing how sick and evil she truly is. Am embarrassed that i kept going back and wished I'd been stronger, as had i stuck to my decision to leave her the first time, id have only lost a month or two vs 3yrs...and wouldn't be in the state of sadness, hurt and despair that im currently in. Granted, i feel more like myself as time passes but am nowhere near ready to date or open up to another woman. This is nothing I've ever experienced before. Last day i saw her, i asked her to come say goodbye, have a hug and wish each other well...but she refused. Having learned from your vids, i understand that its her way of trying to keep an attachment on me. Im still in shock that this has happened to me, she was a real pro, knew exactly what she was doing. Wish me luck! This is the hardest thing ive ever dealt with...but i know she's a monster, borderline criminal psychopath. Almost wanna warn her new supply as he's a decent, nice guy...but if i wouldn't even listen to my family after they met her, why the heck would he listen to me...especially when i know she's already been smearing me and lying about me to him and anyone who will listen! I just have to put my faith in God, love myself and take time to heal. I'll be back. I wish you all the best in your healing journey's and to believe in yourself. Don't give up on love, they're not all monsters!
I had no clue finally being able to leave for good (2nd try, 1st got hoovered/threatened back in.. before I knew what was fully going on) would be the hardest, most unbelievable time. Knowing to survive, I HAVE to maintain total no-contact... at the same time, someone who has lost-control of me (& our son) doing pretty much anything possible to destroy us/our character/ability to live. Make no mistake, knowing how much worse it got when I fell for it the first time yearS ago & went back.... there's nothing he could say or do that would make going back a better option. That said, after such a long-term roller coaster of absolute fkery... the more I took it, the sicker I got, the more I grey rocked, the more I was punished isolated.. (making sure I kept my son protected/safe, my priority.. in the back of my head tho, how good will I be if I continue to be weakened & ill.. physically, mentally) Somehow, he knew I was planning to leave again... (or, just common sense.. idk.. the closer our son came to 16, 17... he may have just figured it was inevitable) Not even a convo, not even to our son.... Empty house (including 90% of OUR stuff) pile of bills, rent due soon... accounts emptied. Worse yet, he had been speaking to, planting seeds & manipulating the little bit of friends, family I had. He ran & THAT DAY, filed for divorce AND came w/ a friend. to drive our car right outta the driveway. A divorce he now made sure.. I wouldn't be able to afford to even file/appear OR get to. He even tried to mess w/ the little bit I was getting for disability... that I'm now supposed to live AND rebuild w/. Had one person to go stay w/, who had issues of their own & ugh... just not a good place. While grateful for the roof, a bed/couch & safety... they used us at our most vulnerable. Didn't get or understand our fears, trauma.. no compassion for the situation now in or how we were going to get through, save.. even live day to day. Never offered to take us anywhere, to participate.. like isolation all over again in a strange place we didn't feel safe in. All, so out of our control, but.. what can we do. I also worry he will find out where we are, tho I've not forwarded anything, not changed anything.. Had to pull my son out of HS even, I mean... ugh. So stressed, so worried, family I can't talk to either... idk what he said, my mom asked if I was on drugs (I'm not a kid, never did drugs, hell.. don't even drink. Don't have an irresponsible bone in my body& have always done the right thing, took care of everyone else... obviously, always at my own expense) Never asked for a thing & either of my parents, who are still living have way more than the means to help out, get us back on our feet so we can START to heal. A lonely hell I could NEVER have imagined... NOT how I thought I'd spend my adult life OR waste sooooo much precious time. Little by little & slower than anything.... saving up to get my own place... to get a car. To be able to have my son get his GED (which, as a mom.... hurts so much he couldn't finish hs) & start his own life, which he deserves... seems too far off. Day by day, we literaly just sit here. We take care of their dogs while they are at work, & can go online (watch yt), play xbox. Thaaaaat's it. All that, in addition to dealing w/ the hoovering, the harassing, the burner phones, the reaching out to old people from HS to send me msgs (since he's blocked everywhere) He goes hot to cold, of course.... pleading, apologizing... then blaming, threatening... I can't tell anyone where I'm at & can't file order of protection (would have to GET there + prob see him in court + most of all..... TELL HIM where he'd have to stay away FROM. We're better off & safer, without it for now!) Holidays he tries to ruin, holidays we can't even take part of & are just like another day. Alone, just the 2 of us.... eating whatever little crap we can find, the one x every other week I go to the store w/ the woman we're staying with. Having to get processed stuff at that, since there's not much 'fridge' room for our stuff... Just so uncomfortable, so stressful.. all of it. So, yeah... you asked for..... prob the 3rd time I've even talked about it, to anyone.... in all this time. It's been just over a year..... FEELS LIKE 100! Now, seeing so many have compassion for & helping out others re: isolation/virus etc.. It's like, jeez.... only when THEY go through it themselves, can they put themselves in anyone else's shoes. Even w/ out going into detail I'll never understand why those who should be there most of all... those who should protect & be that soft place to fall... to help lift you back up.... you tell them you've been abused & need to stay away from him. They know what he did last time & yet......................... tell me I need to forget about him, stop being so paranoid & just do what I've gotta do. Sure, 4 ruptured vertebrae, fibromyalgia, sleep disorders, exhausted mentally, physically, who knows what financially.... I'll never understand how they can turn their back. More angry tha I won't give them my address.... than even asking if we're ok/safe/need anything. smh. At our most vulnerable, the wolves come out to feed... i hate how many people suck! =( Hope you are staying safe & well... (IF you even made it this far,. Sorry, will prob just delete this rambling mess. Felt good to get out tho, tbh... let's me think someone gives a $hit) :) Take care & thanks for what you do here!
You would have been a great Carl Switzer Alfalfa movie....you look like him ....I love the Little Rascal's
Thanks for encouragement stay bless