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"How do you give a good blow job?"
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I was just referred to this video by "Uncle Jimmy," himself. LOL
It's a sad sign of our times when a gay man stands on stage and talks about "how to give a good blowjob" to raptuous applause and laughter from the audience. What have we become as a society...
Ah, I know someone that likes it like Uncle Jimmy! LOL. Luckily I knew that this was not the norm.
@RyleeStrange i was thinking the same thing.
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Want to give the perfect blow job every time?
These 5 blowjob tips will show you exactly what you need to do if you want to give your man incredible and memorable oral sex. In fact if you do it right, then you can sure that he will happily return the favor!
1. Build Up To The BJ - Oral Sex Foreplay. Often you may find yourself making your way straight to your man's crotch from simply kissing him. This is all fine and good. But men actually enjoy foreplay too! This is an blow job tip that many don't realize. While men love quickies, foreplay makes their orgasms feel a lot stronger and more enjoyable than just 30 seconds in your mouth.
So instead of just ripping his pants off and taking him straight into your mouth, start off slower. Try lowering your hand to his crotch, outside of his trousers and gently massage him through his trousers. When you get his trousers off, stimulate around his legs and groin area before you finally take him into your mouth. This bj tip where you build up to oral sex will literally have him begging you to speed up...perfect for building anticipation!
2. Don't Forget About Your Hands. Just because you are using your mouth to give your man a bj, it doesn't mean that you should leave your hands idle and doing nothing.
Instead you should be using them to massage, rub, stimulate and caress around his member. So do pay some attention to his testicles. When you are grabbing and rubbing them, just make sure to be very careful though. Many who first hear about this blow job tip get a little excited and accidentally squeeze too hard and just end up hurting their man.
So remember to be soft and gentle!
3. Make It Wet. Of all 5 blow job tips in this article, making your bj wet is the easiest but possibly the most important. Making it wet for him means that it's going to feel a lot more luscious and sensual which means that his orgasm will feel a lot stronger and more enjoyable when he does reach orgasm.
If you naturally produce a lot of saliva, then you are off to a great start at making your oral sex a wetter experience. But if you don't (or if you want to make it even wetter) then you should consider using flavored lube on him. Alternatively, if you want it to taste even better, then try whipped cream or even some syrup. I cover this in much more detail in the oral sex instructional video along with the most important blow job techniques that you should be using on your man.
4. No Teeth! Many women want to learn oral sex tips on how to make their bjs better for their man. But very few look for the things they should avoid doing during it. This is critical if you want your man to have a good time.
The number one thing that you should avoid when giving your man head is...using your teeth.
His penis is obviously very sensitive, so even accidentally grazing it with your teeth can be incredibly painful for him. And for most men, pain is a turn off. If you find that it's difficult to avoid accidentally grazing his penis with your teeth, then a great technique is to wrap your lips back around your teeth so that they have no chance of coming into contact with his sensitive bits.
5. Variation. You can know all the techniques in the world, but if you don't vary them and actually try new blow job tips, then your man is going to get bored. And we all know that boredom is a massive relationship killer. You need to be constantly trying new things with your man in the bedroom if you want to keep him satisfied. Keep what works and forget about what doesn't.
1. Foreplay: I am constantly surprised to hear students tell me that men don't enjoy foreplay as much as women do. This is simply untrue. Men may never actually tell you that they like foreplay, but your guy will have much more powerful and enjoyable orgasms if you engage in foreplay with him before actually giving him a blow job. The same is true for regular sex. Thankfully, foreplay is pretty easy. Your man will enjoy most of the same things that you enjoy during foreplay.
Think about how you kiss him. Don't just give him a peck on the cheek, pay some attention to the rest of his body too. Not just his neck and cheeks, try kissing him all over his stomach and back as well. You'll even find that kissing his legs, right up to his groin can make for a really hot prelude before you get down to using my other blowjob techniques.
1. Breathing incorrectly can lead to you coming to fast in bed, as ejaculation is nearing a lot of men tense up and breathe to fast. The secret is to take deep long breaths, this has a remarkable effect on how long you last and can sometimes give you an extra 10 minutes.
2. Kegel exercises are an amazing way to control ejaculation, sure the results are not instant but as they say "the best things come to those who wait". So keep the exercises up for a week or two and the difference in your sexual stamina will be amazing. Some people even say that these kegal exercises are also the key to the fabled multiple male orgasm.
If you want to have your man at your mercy while at the same time making sure he won't even consider cheating on you then you should learn how to suck a guys penis.
As you can see to help a woman orgasm there are two basic rules, one is to get her mentally prepared and the other is knowledge of cunnilingus. Get these things right and you are guaranteed to give your woman leg shaking or even multiple orgasms but get one of them wrong and you can lick her for hours with no end result.
How to give women G-Spot orgasms.
The secret to giving these types of climax is all in the preparation. She needs to be relaxed, feeling sexy and very turned on. To relax her give her a massage, to make her feel sexy compliment her and to turn her on give her lots of foreplay.
Now to give women G-Spot orgasms the last thing you should do after all the preparation is try to stimulate it straight away. What you have to do now is get her to the point where she is almost begging you for more. This is best done by giving her cunnilingus. Lick her vagina slowly with some tongue thrusts for a few minutes to get her real horny then stop and put two fingers inside her.
One thing that I would say to you is to try and become more calm in the bedroom. Try not to worry about when you are going to ejaculate. If you feel it coming on too quickly then don't worry, you'll be able to go to round 2 and last longer the second time around.
The first ejaculation of the day is always the quickest so it can be a good idea to get it out of the way before you have sex, if possible. Ideally, you should ejaculate 20 minutes before having sex but even a few hours or first thing in the morning is better than nothing.
Learning how to control early ejaculation is something sought after by many thousands of men all over the world. There are many different methods for lasting longer during sex, here are 3 simple tips that will help you to control ejaculation fast.
3. "Sort yourself out" 10 to 30 minutes before sex and take away the need to ejaculate, combine this with some unselfish lovemaking where you put her pleasure first and you will easily add 20 minutes or even more to your sex sessions.
I have never heard of any case of early ejaculation that could not be cured using natural delay exercises, if the 3 tips above do not work for you then do not worry just try some more until you find one that can control early ejaculation for you.