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So as an 40-ish woman who's most common sexual experiences have been casual, (mix of one-night stands and casual dating) i would say one of the biggest issues is attitude by largely North American men (Can/USA).
Some of the worst sex I had was with ppl i was seeing/knew, and the best sex i had was with a casual dating hookup who moved away shortly after (we slept together second day of hanging out together) and reconnected a number of years later when they were back in the country. I would say there was great sex with an early 20s relationship and a very brief friend hookup, altho both had issues and bailed for various reasons.
The reason I bring up the NA men thing is, in my experience when i travel, or when hooking up with other nationalities European/African, etc. they treat you like a person and not a conquest. NA men treat interacting with women as a zero sum game, acting as if casual kindness, talking, etc. is a prelude to a serious relationship and not worth their time and to be avoided at all costs. In more extreme cases I find them to be straight up hostile. It's bizarre! And quite frankly a toxic mindset on how to view the opposite sex. Also I'm not anti-porn but there are def men who are consuming a certain type of porn way too much and thinking this is what women want and are okay with. Way too much casual s&m creeping in without asking if your partner is into it first is really. not. cool.
Please do how to get laid on an individual level, for us socially awkward people forcing ourselves into the dating world. Not incels or women haters. Just people who struggle with social situations. Such as my self. Who moved around 8 times in highschool and now at 19 with my lack of experience find this of modern dating confusing.
I definitely have more success with FWB than casual one night stands with men. More often than not when I have a one night stand, I regret not having grabbed a bag of Doritos and going home alone. I've gone into these situations with an existing relationship with my FWB so they were already somewhat invested in me as a human being. But if a 1 night stand knows they'll never see me again, what's the point of them giving a fuck about me?
Another thing is just comfort with your partner. Doc mentioned this briefly, but a lot of social programming directed at women actively discourages us from asking for or even knowing what we want sexually. It either takes mad self-confidence or the comfort of a trusted, known individual to overcome that.
Hey...um...I really like your videos. As a woman i think it's really interesting to hear the problems that a lot of guys may face in dating as a different perspective, especially since I tend to have similar issues myself.
But is it at all possible to have more female-centric episodes? Not like all the time but maybe like a monthly thing. I feel like while all these episodes are great, it really is for a male point of view, especially on how to get dates. But meanwhile there are a lot of women who have a hard time finding partners, long or short term, or even just finding dates, and would like some pointers in that direction as well. Maybe something to consider for the future.
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you cant call someone's sexual lifestyle gross and say if you have sex with alot of people you have issues and if you have one partner you dont the point is you can no sexual partners and have issues its a case by case issue
I would love to hear more on this one! the Unseen ones are too short!
Think this should have been longer. Interesting topic I feel this generation is over fed in more ways than one. So being content becomes harder especially when it seems like there are so many options. It’s all about mindset at the end of the day.
The topics of the unseen clips are better than the full episodes
Should be longer tbh